He aha ka monogamous ka pili ma, ko lakou mau pono a me ka keakea

I loko nō o ka mea i loaʻa iā kākou kekahi kumu kanaka, ua pinepineʻapo i ka manao a me ka Emotions, e Makuakane me i ole a pau ke. Mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana ia he kupanaha manaʻo, e like me ke aloha, ua hoopio ia e ke kanaka a me ka mea iā ia e hana i kekahi manawa unexpected mea. i ka ahaaina mare, ma hope a ke kanaka a me ka wahine e pili ana wale nō i kekahi i kekahi i ka Logical ka hopena o ka holomua pilialoha launa mea.

Monogamous kona piko a ka poe hana pela i kekahi AaOIeIOUIeXAOAaIN ma waena o ke kanaka a me ka wahine, a ma kekahi hihia Aʻole 'ae' ana no ka manawa kūpono o ka betrayal a me ke aloha pilina me kekahi kanaka. Ua mea ma luna o kēia kumu, e malama i ka 'ohana i mea ole wale i ka paʻa o ke kaiāulu, akā, i kekahi wahi kahi keiki i hanau ai, a lawe mai. No laila, ka mea maoli pilina ma waena o ke kanaka a me ka wahine e e ma muli wale nō ke ma ke aloha a me ka ae mahalo.

Eia naʻe, e like me psychologists,ʻaʻole mea makaukau ia i ka monogamous pilina kēlā kanaka kēia kanaka, no ka mea, Ua pono, e ulu i keia kiʻekiʻe. I kakahiaka wā'ōpiopio, i ka hapanui o keiki kanaka, e like me ka rula, he nui na pilialoha pili me kekahi kaikamahine, no ka mea, o ka ke kanaka mea kekahi manawa paʻakikī e Hoʻokaʻina 'ia mai lākou mau manaʻo. I keia la, oia like i ke kaikamahine, i ka la apopo - Ua i kekahi, a me ka nele o ka hana a me ka koʻikoʻio hiki aku ai i ka superficial pili. I kona kakahiaka opiopio ka mea hewa me ia, no ka mea, i loko o kēia wā o ka kanaka e imi i kou uhane kokoolua, a ua hele aku e pana aku au i koʻu ola. Naʻe, i loko o kēia wā ka mea, e waiho a hana ka pili ana o kanaka i kekahi i kekahi. I ka wā e hiki mai, ka mea, o ko lakou mau manao e hoʻoholo i ka manawa kūpono o ka hana i loko o ka haawi kulana home 'ole. Ua mea, o ka papa, e pili ana i ka manawa kūpono o ke anaina kanaka, i loko o ka wā e hiki mai, i kekahi kanaka, i mea ole averse e hoʻoili i ka pilialoha pilina me kekahi mea e pili pū ana ma ka mare ana. Nolaila, ma laila e eʻano nui mea he ola heluia, o ke kanaka a hiki i keia i kekahi kahua ma ka rula.

I ko kakou aupuni, ka mea, ua nui na mea i manaoio i monogamous pili i ke kumu no ka pono a me ka kohu kūpono ke ola. Inā mākou e lawe i ka hikina, a me ka helu o Muslim'āina, ma laila e aeia polygamous ka mare, i ka mea, i ka wa a ke kanaka i kekahi ke kauoha aku e mare kekahi mau wahine. Most hana hoihoi 'mea i ka hapanui o nā wāhine i loko o ka Hikina' aelike a me keia wahi o ka noho ana, no ka mea, ka mea Muslim manaoio e leie aku na kanaka e loaʻa mai i ka 4 wāhine.

Ma nā'āina oʻEulopa, a America e kauoha aku ike wale monogamous pili e ae Leomakana e e kūlana wale nō i kekahi i kekahi. Eia naʻe, maoli ke ola, Eia naʻe, Ua piha o examples ka wā i kekahi kanaka, a me ka wahine i kona lua o ka hapalua hoʻololi, nā kumu i ia ihola ia okoa. Aia mau hihia, kahi i kekahi kanaka e pono e hoowalewaleia mai e ka uʻi kaikamahine paha ia e accidentally hoʻololi i kana wahine, i loko o ka moku'āina o kanakaʻona mau intoxication. I ka Ia manawa he mea no hoi kekahi ano o na kanaka i hiki ole e māʻona me kekahi wahine, a hoʻomaka e ana i loko o ka wā e hiki mai ana me nā kaikamāhine me ka twinge o ka lunamanaʻo. O ka holo ana, i kēia mau examples hōʻike loa okoa ana o ka betrayal, a nolaila, pono e okoa ka hoʻokokoke i ia mau wahi, i hiki.

Oe i ka maopopo i ole na kanaka e like monogamous ka pili ma, i na kanaka mai,ʻaʻole kālele ana ma luna o kaʻohana. Lākou AIM mea e lilo i ka aoao o ke ola e hoʻolako i ka manawa e halawai ai me kekahi kanaka, no ka mea, i kekahi mea, a hiki i ka maikai manaʻo. Inā mākou e lawe ia i ka waeʻano o kanaka, e like me ka haku mele, kākau moʻolelo, mea hoʻokani pila a me ka Artists, kā lākou ola examples pono e hai mai i na mea he nui o lakou, he moʻolelo "ma kaʻaoʻao". Oe i ka maopopo ana no ka wahine i ke kanaka o keʻano o ke kukakuka iho, a me kėia iā ia me kekahi mau hana, a me ka hoʻokō i kekahi mau makakū kuahiwi. No laila, i ka pilina ma waena o kanaka o makakūʻoihana kahuna, ai ua pinepine i ulana i loko o ka luna 'hihipeʻa, e ike i kekahi manawa ia mea pilikia.

Hōʻuluʻulu i nā mea a pau o ka luna, ua hiki ke manao nei makou kanaka pili i laila, ka laulā a me nā mea e noiʻi i ia, a ike i ka pono, e aʻo no ka manawa lōʻihi ma ka'āuna kumu o haʻapiliʻike manaʻo. Na ka papa kuhikuhiE mea - i ka ike i loko o kekahi ina he mea hiki ole i ka hana superficial a me ka hoʻokēʻai hopena, e hoahewa ana i ka hana ana o kekahi kanaka. O ka papa, no kela mea keia mea o mākou ia mea he monogamous pilina e ia i laʻana o ka & o'ī, a me ka pono i ke ola, akā, ma ke ala e hele mai ma pitfalls e lanakila i ke kanaka e e alakaʻiʻia e nā kumu e loaʻa mai a me ka manaoio.