Noho'na makaainana i ulu kanaka - he kanaka irresponsible paha koa?

Ka manaʻo o "spontaneity" ua hoʻohana 'ia i loko o ke kēia honua i loko o ka io ala, a personified ka unpredictability, nele o ka hoomalu ana, impulsiveness. Akā, nei ia i ke ano o ka noho malie hoi suddenness a me unexpectedness o ka hana. Noho'na makaainana i ulu kanaka ke kumu no na mea e ae e hoʻohuoiʻia, mistrust a me condescending e pili ana, prompting makaʻu i ka mea, ua i kekahi manawa ke kiola i kekahi mea noloko mai o ka mea maʻamau. E like me ka lōkahi manao ua hoʻomohala i ka hui, i ua he kanaka hiki ole ke hilinaʻi aku lākou iā no o kona paakiki unpredictability. Ua mea pepehi spontaneity, a pehea e kuhikuhi i ia mea he "mea pepehi weliweli" mea e like ai?

Spontaneity - He mea maikai paha, he ino paha?

Iʻike manaʻo, ka spontaneity Hawaiʻi nei wehewehe ma kekahi aoao. Kekahi kumu noho'na makaainana i ulu kanaka - he kanaka i loaʻa ka ikaika a me ke koa, e hana e like me kou keena promptings, ignoring ka mawaho keiki. Ma na mea e ae, ka mea, o ka mea hikiʻole i ka pāʻana i kona hana, he piha nele i o kaʻike hana hana. Penei, spontaneity, mua kukulu ia ma luna o ka pedestal, a laila, iā iaʻano kīkoʻolā mai noi e haʻalele i rightfully ku ka lewa. I ka manaʻo o ka noaʻana o ke kanaka 'īnea nei e ku e ia o ka nele o ke ana, a me ka hope versa. He mau manaÿo i loa hana hoihoi, no ka mea, noho'na makaainana i ulu kanaka no ka lōʻihi manawa, kena ae la kekahi mahalo a me ka hoʻowahāwahā.

A manawa pōkole loa, o ka hookahakaha o ka spontaneity

Unahi iʻike manaʻo hoʻomau e kauo spontaneity i kekahi ala e hiki aku, a laila, i loko o kekahi ao ao. Kekahi i ua kūkākūkāʻia i kanaka spontaneously - ia mea he mea pepehi weliweli a me ka unreliable kanaka, no ka mea, ka mea e ole ike pehea a i makemake ole ia e pakiko-lāʻau, oiai kekahi poe hoomaikai aku individualism, a me ka hiki ia ia ia oe iho. I ka pau ana o keia protracted hoopaapaa ana i na aʻo Moreno, Jung a me Fromm, i wiwo ole mai hoike mai ia makou e noonoo i ka kŰia - kekahi o ka ikaika o ke kanaka e hoohauhee ana, a me ka hiki i ka e noho'na makaainana i ulu - ia mea he hoailona ia o ka oiaio ano pono'ī. E like me kā lākou manaʻo, he mea no ka pono o ke kanaka noʻonoʻo pono ia e ka nui pūʻali koa e pahu aku ai i ke kanaka i ka pakiko-e kō a me ka noho kauwa ole ana o ka hōʻike.

Ke spontaneity i loko o ko lākou waha i hoomaka ai, eʻaʻa aku i ka hoʻokumu kumu a me stereotyped kolohe. Ua Ua lilo kaila ia "e iho", "eʻaʻa e komo ma kona aoao" kahi o ka mau "no laila, hana a pau, i mea au i ke", "e ia e like me ka mea e ae." Spontaneity Ua definitively hoʻokumu i ka podium, a ua kūkala "ke alanui a hiki i ka hoʻoponopono-ulu ana."

Ko mākou mau lā. E noho'na makaainana i ulu -ʻaʻole i loko o vogue?!

Makahiki hala, i hooholoia i loko o oblivion haku o ka manaʻoʻike sciences ka poe e hoʻokele i loaa i ka spontaneity o ka inoa maikai. A me kekahi manawa hou, hina i Punahele ole o na kanaka, ua i aie ia me ka hopena maikaʻi 'ano like me ka nele o ka hooponopono, a me ka impulsiveness unpredictability. I kēia lā o ka honua, kanaka spontaneously - he kanaka infantile, irresponsible a me kaʻiliahi, hikiʻole ke kaula kāohi i loko o konaʻoleʻana "I". E noho'na makaainana i ulu - auwe! - wale nō keiki hiki.

Hōʻeuʻeu honua mākou huakai ma lalo iho ona, a aʻo i ka hahai i nā kuleana, ka hoʻopaʻa 'ana a me nā stereotypes. Pono dute, ka hoʻonaʻauao, na kapu i nākiʻiʻia mākou mau lima, a me mākou e ole ke ku imua o, hoomaopopoia i mea e ia. O noho'na makaainana i ulu ka olelo i keia la ua i paʻa i loko o kiʻekiʻeʻia - a pau ua ia e manao mai, calibrated ma luna o nāʻaoʻao, a me nā pono a pau loa, ma ka pale UAAIIeIIeX. A ua kakaikahi no mākou imi i ka ikaika, e hahai i ka pahale hoahewa ia, me ka lohe ana i ka inaina mau kahea ana o ke kaiāulu e hoʻoneʻe i ku okoa ana o ko lakou "I". A me mākou nō ke ole hooholo no lakou iho i ka mea, i - aea o ke kaiāulu a me ke ano pono'ī oiaio?

Alanui i spontaneity!

noho paʻa i loko o ke ao nei o ka puke maʻamau, mea kaumaha a me ka luuluu. Ua noa i nā kānaka apau no ka manawa pōkole loa, ma ka kekahi ka dotage, a i ka haha noa, e e aku mahu, a e hoʻi i ka ninau ola. No ka spontaneity, e like nā mea a pau e pono ai, ka mea pono i ka manawa a me ka wahi. Pehea e loaʻa iā ia ka moku'āina?

• E huli i ke kelepona i ka po.
• Book cafe i loko o ia mau ipu, a i ole, ua ho'āʻo.
• Aimlessly hele a puni ke kaiāulu.
• E ma luna o ka makaikai ana i ka ninau, a i ole halawai.
• E ke kaʻa'ōhua, a hele i ka alanui.
• Kau aku ma luna o kekahi mea i ike ole e weluwelu.
• E hele i ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni i kekahi ho film.

Mau hana, e haawi aku oe i maikaʻi Emotions a me ka ikehu. Oe e e hiki ke haha noa noho'na makaainana i ulu laʻelaʻe 'ana.

No mea pehea oe nui keia theme, na ninau e pili ana pehea kanaka spontaneously - ia mea maikai paha, he ino paha, spontaneity - he pilikia i ke kaiāulu a me ke ano o ka olelo, kela kanaka i nā kānaka apau, e pane i loko o kā lākou mauʻaoʻao, ma muli o kā lākou mau hihio iho o ka manaʻo. Akā, mai mai a ianoiyuaa a ano o oxygen ina spontaneity no oe - i kahi o ka olioli, ka hele a me ke ola.