Palapala o ka AaOIeIOUIeXAOAaIN

Pau pono e kamaʻilio mai ka hanau ana. Palapala ma waena o kanaka hiki ke maheleia i ekolu nui, ao ke ano: pokole, ke kamaʻilio a me ka AaOIeIOUIeXAOAaIN. Mea o ka mea ia ina he mea hiki ia, e halawai me ka pokole a me ka palapala ma ka "maemae palapala", i mea, a kaʻawale lākou, mai nā mea a pau i nā eiiiiiaiou o ka palapala, alaila, koho i palapala i AaOIeIOUIeXAOAaIN ma ke kaʻawale lalani mea aneane hiki ole i.

Ke loa ka inoa o kēia kaʻina ano keia i ka waiwai o ke Komisina o kekahi hana: "He pahu mai iaʻu e hana i kekahi mea," "Ua hookomo puʻe ma luna iaʻu, akā, au e e haawi ia" a me "Ua hakuloli i ia mai iaʻu".

Palapala like AaOIeIOUIeXAOAaIN pono me kaʻeleu komo i loko o ke kūkā o ka interlocutors elua. A ina communicative kamaʻilio ua kaupalena wale i ka palapala o ka 'ike, a me ka pokole - e auscultation kanaka o nā manaʻo' ē aʻe, e loaʻa kekahi naoh i ka interlocutor e ukuhi i ka palapala a kaʻina hana i loko o kaʻokoʻa waeʻano.

Kekahi kanaka i pilikia pü. Nā kumu i loaʻokoʻa. Autism, hikiʻole, e hoike i ko lakou mau manao, a me ka shyness reticence alakai i ka mea i ke kanaka ua paa hou mai la i loko ona iho, ia mea hiki wale ke ike nei au, akā, apparently aole i pane koke ai i ka ike.

Ua, kanaka, ka poe e like me ka lewa kupono pane i ka interlocutor, he kanaka e hoʻomaka ana e kiʻi poepoe. A me ka makehewa! Loa pinepine, no ka reticence a mawaho poe hūnā iā he akahai kōkua aloha o ka naʻau, a me ka loko o ua mau lawelawe 'ia hohonu ka uhane hana. A ina kekahi e e hiki ia "kamaʻilio" e lanakila ma luna o ke ano, e huli ae i ka maʻamau pokole i launa pu me ke AaOIeIOUIeXAOAaIN,ʻo ia ka'āina laki. Best kuhikuhi a me ka hoa, malia paha,ʻaʻole e loaʻa i loko o ka honua a pau.

Kanaka i oi paha, e ana, o ka oi aku i waena o nā wāhine, ka poe ia lakou iho, e kāinoa pilikia o ko lākou mau interlocutors, e kamaʻilio i ka mea ana e makemake ai i wale nō kommukativnuyuʻaoʻao o ke kamailio. Oia kanaka, e like me ka lāʻau grouse ma ka lek mea. Ka hoomoe anaʻaʻole i ka 'ike pono, ka mea, ua i manao e pili ana paha ia mea hoihoi' ia kekahi akā, iā lākou, e hoʻokō i kā lākou mau ʻano o ka 'ōlelo mea loa i hoihoi i loko o ka manao o ka interlocutor. Kēia "hihiu me wale kekahi pahu hopu" - He oiaio no i ka palapala e like me AaOIeIOUIeXAOAaIN!

He aha kou pono e ike ke kanaka piʻi wale i ka ia i ka maikaʻi hoa a kau aku i ka pahu hopu, e hooiaio mai i kekahi mea 'ole hoʻohana i ka hea, e hoʻololi i ka manao o kona "counterpart"?

I loko nō o ka nui, e hoike ana a pau o ko mākou manaʻo ua mea maoli i hana, a laila mākou eʻauʻau kai, ia mea,ʻaʻole e pono e ao aku i ka ia malaila i kekahi mau rula o ka kamailio. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, holo nōhie ka malama ana i ke kamailio ana - o ka 'epekema!

Ke ano mua ia ana ma waena o ka mau o kaʻano like ia mea me ka AaOIeIOUIeXAOAaIN, a hiki i ka ia a me ka efficient - keia mea i ka pololei o ka makana o ka interlocutors nā kūlana hana. Ia mea, i loko o kēlā kahua kekahi mea i ka Haku, a me ka 'ē aʻe - he kauwa. Iloko o ke kamailio e hahai i ka "lei o ke kauoha".

e alakai ana ia wahi no hoi i kona mahele iho i loko o "luna" a me ka "ponimatelya". Ma ka hihia mua, i ke kamailio ana o ka ua ma muli o ka makemake e kahu ai i ka pilikia, a me ka makemake e Kīwala'ō. Oia kamaʻilio mea,ʻaʻole e mau ana ka makemake kauwa, no laila, holo nōhie kanaka ho'āʻo me uuku i hiki e ana mai iaʻu i kanaka - ". Papa lunakiaʻi"

I ka lua o ka hihia, ke alakai kulana hiki ke ike i ka nānā 'ana ma luna o ka manaʻo o ka like o na interlocutors. Eia ke kūlana nui hoʻokani ma ka makemake e alakai hooponopono ole kāna hana e lawelawe, i maopopo i kou hoapili ia a hiki i ka ae like, a kupono i ka holomua o ke kūkā '. Ua mea me ka na kanaka mea loa oluolu e kamaʻilio, mahalo 'ka puni i ka nānā' ana paha i nā hualoaʻa he oiaio maoli no. Ma hope o hui 'ana me na kanaka o kona punahelu i loko o ka ua koe i ke aloha maikai i ke kanaka'ē aʻe delving i loko o ka pilikia a me ka ho'āʻo e kōkua.

Ia penei, mai keia postulate: ina oe makemake kanaka e kamailio, a makemake makemake e hoʻokaʻaʻike meʻoe, e ho'āʻo e ike ia lakou, e ku ana ma ke kulana o ka like, a hiki ina ia oe i noi ole'ōlelo aʻo.