Pehea e aloha aku oe ia oe iho: o kaʻike manaʻo o ka uhane

i ao mai ai mākou mai ka noho 'ana kamaliʻi, e aloha aku i ko lakou mau makua, kaikuahine, nā hoahānau, nāʻohana, kumu, aole i olelo mai pehea e aloha aku oe ia oe iho. Manawa, na mea a pau mai kaʻike manaʻo mau loea, ua lōkahi i ka i ana i ka hapanui o ka pilikia o ke kanaka - nā loko o nā mākua, a me ka mua moku'āina - malaila mea, mai ka "mau hookae ana" no o kona pono la. Pau ka hanauna a ulu nunui (oi loa ma ka ?? eoi? O ka mea kahiko Soviet Union), ka mea waleʻapu kōheoheo ma keia kina. Kēia hoʻohuʻuʻike manaʻo e like me kāna hana i loko o ke ola, inadequacy, ahiahi, passivity. Ua pau Keia aa hiki loa i loko o keʻano o nā mea a pau kanaka pilikia. E kū'ē i kēia kāʻei kua, ka mea, ua nei lilo ka hailona o ka laua kamailio ana e pili ana i ka mea i kekahi kanaka aole loa e hiki e hauʻoli i loko o ke ola, ina ole initially hoʻomaka e aloha aku oe ia oe iho. No ka mea, he nui na kanaka ka poe i hoʻomaopopo loa i ke kumu o ko lākou kaumaha, ia mea hana hoihoi i ka ike ana, e aloha aku oe ia oe iho.

kanakaʻike manaʻo

Ua manao, pono, e huikau ana ia? Ia maua, lawe ia, a hoʻomaka e aloha aku oe ia oe iho. Naʻe, i kēia hana mea,ʻaʻole mea i kekahi lā, akā,ʻaʻole i ka mahina. Me lakou i mea hoike, i ka wahine e 40 makahiki ia ia iho i ole makemake, ua manawa i hana ia i loko o ka hoʻokahi lā? O ka holo ana, i kēia mea ole. O kekahi poe pehea e hoolilo ia oe iho hāʻule i loko o ke aloha, ina oe e disagreeable ia ia iho? Ma hope o kekahi mau hookae ana ia ia - ia mea like ino a me ka hoʻopailua maʻa, e like pūnuku puhi, no kekahi laʻana, a me kekahi mea e like mea. Alaila, ia mea pono e kiʻi pohaku uinihepa, no ka mea, i nā a systematically, e wale e hoomakaukau me ka lōʻihi-makahiki kanawai. Pehea e aloha aku oe ia oe iho? ʻike manaʻo kōkua e aʻo i ka mua ma ka manao elemakule, ina pakiko-aloha i ole, ua vaccinated hope kamaliʻi. No laila, he nui na aʻo papa, puke, hana, a me ka imi 'Oihana.

He aha e hana, a pehea e aloha aku oe ia oe iho?

kanakaʻike manaʻo i mua Kau aku la lakou me ka lokahi me ka puni honua. Akā, mawaho aʻe i hana na mea a pau, e luku mai i keia "papa". No AiON oe kanaka - kekahi i mea i ikaika lokahi me oneself a me ke ke ao holoʻokoʻa. 'O kēia pehea psychologists hoʻoholo ihola i ke kanaka aloha ia ia iho. He aha ikeia ku pono moku'āina? Man ua e noho ana ma ka hoailona makue, mau nema aku ana au iaʻu iho, a no nā mea a pau, e like me na mea e ae maikaʻi, oi holomua, oi holomua. He mau kona hoʻohālike iā ia iho me kekahi poe e ae, ka ukiuki, mihi iho, wahi a ka mea e pono UOAAaOON na mea a pau e hooluolu, malimali ae, curry ka lokomaikaʻiʻia mai, etc. Na kekahi kanaka e haawi physical hoike ana: .. Kulou ana, 'naueue wale no hoi, slurred olelo, modesty, ka haahaa loa , oolea. Oia ke kanaka ana i aloha ia oe iho?

ʻike manaʻo o ka loli

Ke kaʻina E hoʻomaka ana me ka pilikia. Inā hiki, ia mea maikai, e kipa i ka psychologist i 'oihana' o "huki" mai a pau'ōpala hoʻi me ka hana ma ia mau mea no laila, i ke kanaka ke hoʻololi loa. A pehea e aloha aku oe ia oe iho? ʻike manaʻo buke - ka mea, 'o nā mea a pau e pono ai, akā,ʻaʻole pau i ka manawa e heluhelu, a me ke kala, ma ka hopena, he hoʻomalu uku. Omaka liʻiliʻi, akā, maoli i ka hana i nā lā. E hai aku oe ia oe i ka mea maikaʻi, a me ka nani aloha kanaka i loko o ke ao nei. E hana hou i kēia i loko o ke kakahiaka, ma ke ahiahi ma mua e hele ana i ka moe, e nana ana i loko o ke aniani ma kona noʻonoʻo. Ana i kekahi manawa, a no nā mea a pau scold a nema aku ana ia oe iho, ma ka mea ku ole, ua mahalo ia no nā mea a pau, a hiki no ke kiai. Pamper oe ia oe iho he pipiʻi kuai, e iho i ka i makemake loa, akā, ke manaʻo neiʻoe e ole pono. I ka papa kuhikuhiE mea manawa ua ole e kekahi disparage, makaʻuʻole a me ka hōʻino 'e pono oe. Eia ka mea, Ua nui ia oe i hoʻomaka i ka mahalo i ka puni. Akā, i kēia, e hiki wale ma hope o oe io aloha ia oe iho. Ma hope o ka hoʻomaopopo pono o ka mea 'ē aʻe - ia mea heʻilihune no, a me ka mea - i loko o oe, akā,ʻaʻole hope versa.