Increasingly, poʻe haʻi aku lākou unwillingness e hana. Kekahi flatly moku'āina: "I mau au e i makemake i ka hana", kamailio e pili ana i kā lākou'ōhumu mai ai me ke ano o ka hana, nele o ka manaʻolana 'ia, e loaʻa mai ana imua o. Pinepine kanaka i aku nei au ka mea, e i makemake i ka hana ma ka rula, ka nānā 'ana i kahi a me ka mea nona, a me ka makemake e hele, i leʻaleʻa. Eia naʻe, nui a oi kanaka kō: "au e i makemake e hana ia no kona makua kāne," i mea, he mea ka e kō i ka hana hiki e leʻaleʻa, akā, ina mea o ka hana iho.
No ke aha la i keia ahaʻia nei? No ke aha la e kanaka e haawi mai i kā lākou hana? Ua hiki i kekahi mau kumu. He nui wale kiʻi maluhiluhi o ka oaeouee? Amo, hana, amo, e moe ana a me ka pōkoleʻanuʻu ma waena o ke ola. Ma kekahi wahi, kanaka olalo i ka manaʻo i ka mea e noho ma ka mea i ka hana, e like me ka hana ana - keia mea i ka manaʻo o nā mea a pau ke ola. He oiaio, he mauʻoihana kahuna, ai loko i ka mea dominates i ka hana, akā, me he rula, 'elele o kaʻoihana kahuna, ai koho ia iho. I ko kakou aupuni ka mea, ua lōʻihi Ua he stereotype i ina oe i ole e hele i ka hoʻopaʻa haʻawina ma ke kulanui pono ma hope o ke kula kiʻekiʻe - 'oe makemake e ka hope,ʻaʻole i loaʻa he' oihana ma hope o ka puka - he hope, nui, i 'Aʻole e holopono - he slacker. No ia mea, he nui loa, he nui kiʻekiʻe kula haumāna puka, ma hope o ka hoʻopau ke kula, imi iho la e hana ma ka liʻiliʻi loa ma kahi e, i ole anei pohihihi mai ka ka mea, makemake a me ka mea ka mea, ua pili. A no ia, ia mea i kahaha ko oukou naau i na alanui o ka poe kanaka o ka poʻe e hele mai ana, ana: ", au e i makemake i ka hana" Mea pōmaikaʻi, i loko o nā makahiki, keia palapala kauoha emi ana, a me ka poʻe i hou manao e hoʻokokoke i ke koho ana o kaʻoihana kahuna, ai, ma laila ka manaolana i ka pili hanauna o ka 'Oihana e e hou maikaʻi.
Kekahi mea, he pono ole ke kumu - i ka nele o ka ways. Maoli, no ke aha la hana? People mai i maopopo ke kumu e hana ia, ina no ke dala ole wale no ka i noho ma ka hale, akā, maopopo leʻa mai no ke aloha o ke akamai. Naʻe, i kekahi manawa e hana ia kekahi kanaka i hōʻea i kekahi pae o ke akamai i loko o kekahi mauʻano o ka haʻawina, a 'aʻole i ike i nā manawa kūpono no ka hou ulu a me ka ulu, ka mea e loaʻa manakā. Au e i makemake i ka hana - he hōʻole 'ana e hoʻololi i kekahi mea, e makemake ana ia ma mua o Hooponopono Hou ia i ko lakou mau pono a me ka uea. Kēia paha e ku pono, e makaʻu ana i insufficiently holomua ma o ka hou papa.
Aia He He waeʻano o ka poʻe i makemake e hana ma ka rula, akā, i kekahi mea 'aʻole i koi i ke alo i loko o ka oihana mai ka 9 a hiki i 5. "au e i makemake i ka hana ma ka oihana!" - e Aloha mai o ia mea, ua lohe. O kŰia ua lilo hou aku e like me ka manawa i ke koho ana o freelance hana i hoomaka, a me ka mau, ka wā kanaka loheʻana i loaʻa freelancing. Naʻe, ka mea e e kaulana i ole a pau i kū'ē wale iho nō i ka hana ma ka oihana. Mua office office me ka paio, a ina oe e loaa ole ma kekahi wahi o ka hana, ia mea,ʻaʻole e pono i nā e pau. Eia hou, he nui ka poe holoʻokoʻa i hele mai ma ka manaʻo i ka mea, e kali ana no ka kekahi 'oihana, ka mea makemake, e hana me nā hoapili, ua ike no ka mea, i ka nui o ka hoʻokuʻu mai hana (i kue i ka freelancer, i mea hihiu-maka ho'āʻo i ka po, e urgently ke hoʻokō' ia ka papahana, a i kekahi inehinei). Ma ka kekahi lima, he mau puu o ka pono o ka freelancing: ke kanaka ia ia iho hoʻoneʻe ai i kou lā, hiki mana i ka buke o ka hoʻopā ai ka hana, hooponopono, i ka unplanned Kauai, ke hoʻokokoke hilinaʻi nui loa ma luna o kona hiki e hana, tālena a me ka makemake.
Aia nō i ka poe kuokoa ana o na kanaka ia lakou iho kumu. Pinepine mākou i aku nei au, "au e i makemake i ka hana" ka wā emotionally a psychologically ka ho'āʻo 'ma ka kekahi kahua. Iʻike manaʻo keia ua kapaia burnout. He pinepine ia lŘlŘ i loko o kaʻoihana kahuna, ai mea e noi mai ana mālama nui hui 'ana me kanaka. Ma kekahi wahi, he kanaka koke haalele i ka uku hoopanee i na mea a pau, e hana e like me ia, nā hoapili i haha aku i ka pono o ka huhu, a me ka hāʻule pohō wale. I kekahi manawa, loaa i loko o kēia mau Emotions, he kanaka hele i ka hana, e noi ana ka palena haʻahaʻa kanaka ihe. E pale ia i ka hoʻokūkū, psychologists waiho aku i ka hoʻololi 'ana i kā lākou mau wahi o ka hana a' ano o ka ha awina kela 7 makahiki, a ma ka hihia o kaʻoihana kahuna, ai mea e noi mai ana e hana me kanaka - na 4 makahiki.