Life mea,ʻaʻole e mau ana e hoʻomōhala ana i like, ua ike ia. Hemolele hoʻonānea hale, aloha makua, loea keiki, he maikaʻi 'oihana - Ua pinepine a pau ia mea wale nō i ke kiʻi o ka ilipoo ame Magazine. Akā, mea, inā e hoʻomaka, mai ke kumu mai'ānaiʻia ina dysfunctional ohana e kaʻapu kōheoheo a pau manaolana? E hiki anei i kekahi ke kōkua? A o ka mea e hana ia? E e Pehea ikaika mana o ka moku'āina, a pehea ka nui o - kaiapili kuleana?
Mua, mākou e hoakaka i ka manaʻo. Dysfunctional ohana - ia Aloha i mau hune, aole hoi kāpili. Children hiki e nā makua, waiwai hiki ia, akā, inā i ka hale kāʻili wale a me ka hoohaahaa ana, ina o ka makua kāne a me kona makuwahine meaʻona a me ka lawe ai ', ina e mea ma ka lima - i keia hoike i ka hohonu dysfunctionality he "aeea o ke kaiāulu". Street keiki makua ole, nou koke ka nohoaliʻi. A ka mea i ike i dysfunctional wale nōʻohana hiki ke hoolawaia ma i na keiki a pau ma ka mea ana i kā lākou mau manao maalea, a, e paleʻia no lākou ola. Akā, aha, inā ua hūnāʻia nā mea a pau ma hope o ka mea helehelena o ka mea'ē? Ka wā pōʻino nui ana ma ke kua o ka pa kiʻekiʻe a me ka mea hiki ke hooheheeia puka? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, nā lawelawe kaiāulu e mai i mālama i ke keiki, mai ka 'ohana: na makua mai i noi mai no ia e pōmaikaʻi ai, na keiki ma ke alanui e i keʻehi mai. Pilikia i oopa ia i ka psyche o ka wa e ola ana, i hiki ma mua maka. No ka laʻana, alcoholism, a, o ka oi aku, ka lāʻau 'ino - o ka naue like o ole wale i ka "maku o ke kaiāulu". Kēia illnesses i hiki hoopa aku i kekahi. A me ka wahi lulu popilikia mea,ʻaʻole mau wale ka hana i loko o ka slums.
Eia hou, ina mua dysfunctional ohana ke helu ma kaʻeleu komo o ka lehulehu lawelawe - ola i ka'ōnaehana o ka muli o lapaʻau o alcoholism, sobering-i wahi, kōkua i hoakaka ia noa - ano mau hiki i kaupalena '. A aia no he paradoxical kulana home 'ole. I ka nui o ke aupuni inflates ka lahui nä Temepela: "E ko makou keiki pepehi i ka hewa Americans!", A me loko o ka aina i ka pilikia e like me ka mea hakuʻole paha ia mea maluhia paʻa mau maka. Experience i loko o nā'āina hōʻike i ke kiʻekiʻe hae o ka poʻe e ola ana , aole ia i hoʻopalekana 'ku e pathologies o socially nui ka maʻi. Dysfunctional ohana loa ma ka pono o ka manaʻoʻike kākoʻo a me kōkua, aʻaʻole mea. ʻO wai ka mea e hoʻolohe iā ia, ka mea e e hopohopo nei i ka hopena o ke keiki?
Children mai socially keakeaʻohana pinepine i alahula mau manaʻoʻike pilikia. Ka mea, i ke kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe o ka iini, ka mea i lag hope ma ka ulu, ka mea e mai i ka olelo no ka loaa ana pono o ka hoʻonaʻauao. Mua o nā mea a pau i na pilikia hiki a me ka pono mālama kanaka, mai koke i ke kaiapuni: hoalauna, hoahanau, kula hana. Ka hoomaopopo ole a me ka 'ole-ākeʻakeʻa - kēia mau mea i nā kumu no ka mea, o ka mea a ohana dysfunctional ua nele o ka manawa kūpono o ka loaa kōkua. Ma na aina, ka mea, ua hoʻomano haawi nohona hoʻolaha pahuna ma ka hoomalu ana mai, i ke koloheia. Ma waho aʻeo ka lehulehu kōkua papahana na, ke aupuni a me ka 'ole-e pono ai ka hoʻolālā mua i aʻo, hale noho, psychosocial kākoʻo. No ka laʻana, uku aku crises-oaio? A hotlines. Dysfunctional ohana - mea,ʻaʻole he ponoi pilikia. People ka poe e ae, mai ke kolohe, alcoholism, ka lāʻau 'ino,' ohana, pono e ike i kahi e huli ai no ke kōkua. A me ka hapanui o importantly, ma ka lehulehu ike paka i ia mea e pono ke hana i ka mea hoʻonoho e hoʻopale ai i ka nāwaliwali. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pinepine keiki mai dysfunctional ohana e ae aku i ka noho malie, aole lakou e lilo i kakahi mea e, aʻaʻole i kā lākou mau pilikia kaʻana like. Ulia oaio? Ia i nā mōhai malumalu papaaina, a me ka lawe wale, kōkua i ke hoʻoponopono i ka loio a me ka juridical pilikia. People Pono i ka ike i loko o ka loa pilikia kulana home 'ole kahi a lakou i e noi i ke kōkua.