E alakai ana i ka ahaaina mare

alakai

Oe e nō i loko o kanalua paha oe e pono e alakai ai i ka ahaaina? A laila ka mea, o keia 'atikala ke kōkua e ka hoʻoholo mua'ākau i loko o ia he nui pukana like me ka hoʻolālā o ka ahaaina.

He nui ka'ēpoda, ma ke kanalua, a manao iho la lakou ia mea lawa, e kauoha aku i ka hōʻike-Ballet, ke one ka pāpaho, kupua 'ole kekahi' ē hōʻike polokalamu, a ma ke koena o ka manawa a pau o ko oukou mau hoa a me ka hanauna e loaʻa iā lākou iho e hana ana, a ma ka mea hookahi manawa hou a oe i leʻaleʻa. Eia, oe e seriously noonoo ole i ka waiwai pio o kou Holiday.

First: nui o kou mau hoa i e ke koikoi paha e ole i kekahi i kekahi i nā mea a pau. Owai la ka mea e kōkua a pau halawai? Pololei kuleana alakaʻi i ka ahaaina mare, no ka mai newlyweds a hiki i keia mea wale,ʻaʻole lawa ka manawa.

Ka lua: e i leʻaleʻa pono kekahi polokalamu i ka makemake i loko o ka palapala o toasts, hoopapa, etc. etc. ʻO wai ka mea a pau i kēia hiki a e ke hana? Kupono-e alakai ana i ka ahaaina! No ke aha!? Ae, no ka mea, he uuku loa pahiki i na hoa e hele ana ma luna o ka Holiday, e kūkulu i ka polokalamu o hana no ke ahiahi.

Ke kolu o ka wahi o koʻu "Ae" i loko o ka lokomaikai o ka oihana hana o ka ahaaina, aole i ka mea e alakai ana ia paha toastmaster, I loaʻa i ka nui lāliʻi i mea ole hiki i nā malihini, akā, he mea paʻakikī loa e pono no ka leʻaleʻa, harmonious a me ka poinaʻole ahaaina.

E hiki no hoi noonoo ma ka loa pīhoihoi kumuhana: "He aha e hiki Tamada, mea e hiki ole au?" A e manaʻo! He oiaio, e hele i kekahi mau hanana,ʻaʻole pono ahaaina mare i i alakai a hiki objectively loiloi i kā lākou uea 'ole i ka ia kulana. Mākou a pau maopopo leʻa kona mau mokuna;,ʻoliʻoli, akamai, ike, resourceful kanaka a me ka uhane o ka poe. Akā, i ke ano o ka poe? Ko makou mau hoapili, a me ka mea naʻauao, ua ulu kokoke i ka telepathy, paha, ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, o ko mākou mau hoa maikai, mākou i aʻo loa pono a me ka ike ana a me ka poe i hiki ke pane i ka kekahi'ōlelo hoʻomakeʻaka a hoike mai i kouʻaoʻao. Pehea e pili ana i ka nui lawa pūʻulu o kanaka, ua ole loa kama'āina? Pehea e loaʻa kekahi mau 'ōlelo koke a me ka poʻe i nā mea a pau? Pehea e e hui ', a kamaʻilio pū kekahi i kekahi hoa? Pehea e pane i ole-hae, anapu koke kaua kipi kulana home 'ole? Like a pau, olioli iho, a me ka mai mai, heʻoi aku ka intrusive? Pehea e hahai i ka kōmi'ōkuhi, a mai hoopoina i ke kikokikona e pono ai ma ka manawa oʻApelila ia? Pehea e kākau i kekahi kōmi'ōkuhi e küpono a pau? A, hope, pehea e hana i ka Holiday ka pomaikai, a maona a pau? Oe i ka pane i kēia mau nīnau? Inā pēlā, a laila, kekahiʻoe toastmaster, a wae i ka hewaʻoihana kahuna.

Kekahi mea nui e loaʻa haku-ia mea i ka hoao ana. Experience i alakaʻi hanana o kekahi pae a me ke ano. Eʻae i ka hoao ana i paʻa i loko o kekahi hana, pela me ka pili ana i ka aiiia. Ma hope o kekahi mau hanana alakai hoʻomaka e maopopo i kekahi o na subtleties o olua a me ka launa pu. Ma hope o kekahi mau kakini hanana alakai lilo maikai hoʻomalu i loko o kā lākou mau kahua, a e hana i kou Holiday he pomaikai. Involuntarily ka ninau aicieeaao: "He aha e hiki mai ka wā haneri o nā hanana?". A ma hope o nā haneri o ka kēpau i ka 'oihana a me ka ike pehea e hana i ka Holiday mea i pono i ka mea nui a me ka Haliʻaaʻela ka manaʻoo mākou ka hoao ana.

E hōʻuluʻulu manaʻo: ināʻoe a me kou hoa i ma hope ona i ka hana a ma ka liʻiliʻi loa he kakini hanana i loko o ka arsenal o na mea he nui okoa oʻApelila, hoopapa, a me ka lealea, eaaei e hoʻokau kamailio ma waena o ka apana uuku na ninau i na kanaka, Ua hiki e ho okumu moʻolelo keaka a me ka pololei i ka nui kanaka, e hiki pakele e paulele aku ia ia, a haawi aku i kou Holiday loa i loko o kona mau lima. Akā, ināʻoe e ma ka liʻiliʻi loa ma kekahi wahi ia negatively, laila, kino au e hōʻike iā 'oe, e ĸokoĸa ana nä pane wale nō i loko o ke koho ana o ka wahi, a me ka pane i ka nīnau "ina ke kēpau kii?" ka mea, manao no iaʻu ahuwale. A oe!?