High pakiko-ʻia - i ke ki i ka ole?

High pakiko-ʻia - i ke ki i ka ole? A i 'ole ke ala e pomaikai? Ua noa manaʻo okoa,, e nae hoahewa mea,ʻaʻole i loko o mākou mākaukau, i ka papa kuhikuhiE mea - e pohihihi mai kiʻekiʻe ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia e loli ai i ke ola, ka pili ma me kanaka pehea. A me ka mau, ka mea ma hope o ia?

E hoʻomaka me ka ho'ākāka 'ana no ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia i nā mea a pau. Penei, he auhau o ko lākou kanaka nā mea hiki a me nā mākau. Mai ka ho'ākāka 'ana ia ma hope i ka oukou mea i ike iho i e okoa, no ka mea, kela mea keia mea i kona manao iho i na mea e hele ana ma luna o.

Ma muli o ka hana o ka 'oihana psychologists, i manao ai, pakiko-ʻia - ia mea he integral hapa o ke kahua o ke kanaka, no ka mea, e hoʻomōhala ai a me ka kosteneet me ka hoʻoponopono-ike paka i. Akā, he mea pono e kaulana i ka manao o makou ke e, ma ka kekahi lima, kūpono - maʻamau, awelika, haʻahaʻa ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia. Ma ka kekahi lima, lawa ponoʻole - kiʻekiʻe ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia a me understated. E mākou kālailai ma ka mea.

Kūpono, a pau ia i ia, ka mea, ua noʻonoʻo ke kūmau, no ka mea, i ke kanaka, he kuoo nana aku i ka mea, ke hana, e piʻi i luna a me ka mea e hana ke hana. Kēia mau pae ekolu hiki ke lilo iho la kekahi i kekahi, i hilinaʻi nui wale ma luna o mākou hoʻoikaikaʻana. Pakiko-ʻia - mea he anakahi o ko mākou piʻi like a me ka pili me ka waho honua.

No ka laʻana, ina o ka pae mea haʻahaʻa, a laila poʻe mea ole ka paulele i loko o lākou nā mea hiki, loaa ia ia ia iho pomaikai, ho'āʻo mai e ku mai, mai ka ahakanaka, e noonoo pono i kona ano, a me kona ola manakā, a uninteresting. Akā, ua he kanaka hiki nō e ho'āʻo pono e hoʻokō i kekahi mea, a ma hope o ka pomaikai o ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia hoʻoneʻe 'ia paha e loli ana.

People me ka meakino, a kiʻekiʻe manao o ka iho hou ihola i optimistic Outlook ma ke ola, pinepine ka paulele i loko o lākou nā mea hiki, akā, i kekahi manawa, ka oi aku ma hope o ka hoʻokō 'ole', mai a ole kekahi mea'ōnaehana paleʻea, hiki ke noho ma ke kahaha. Ma launa a me nā kanaka, aole lakou ka hapanui e ole e hōʻike i ka hopena maikaʻi,ʻaʻole naʻe, i ole imi i ka hooluolu a pau, no laila mai i imi i ka lokomaikaʻi a me ka mai e hoʻokō i kā lākou 'ōlelo.

Inā 'oe kālailai haʻahaʻa ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia, a laila,' aneʻi o ka wahi a hiki i ka mana o ka haʻahaʻa ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia e hele mai i ka pakiko-flagellation. Ua paʻa kamaʻilioʻana, e haha aku minamina no oe ia oe iho,'āhewa i na pilikia o ka hoʻopaʻi,ʻaʻole ho'āʻo ana e imi i kumu i loko o. Introspection no ia mea i kaupalena 'ia ka hoʻoponopono noʻonoʻo loi, akā, ka mea, aole ia e huli i kekahi aoao, e hoʻoikaika' ana i ko lakou kulana.

Inflated pakiko-ʻia, paradoxically, pinepine mea he ea paha wale. Nui, e like me ka helu ana ia lakou iho, a me ko lakou hana i ka wa a nā kanaka i ike wale nō i loko o ka poʻe hewa nui e hiki malamalama, a i kona mau kanaka - ma ka wahi mua; ka wā e hilinai ana ma ka oiaio ana a pau no oe i kona maikai mamua o ka loa kupono poe akamai i - mea ku pono i kānaka.

Pinepine, i kēia mau kanaka hūnā i inferiority eiiieaena. E like me uaʻike, ka maikaʻi pale - kaua, no laila, ka mea, touted lakou ia lakou iho ma na mea hiki ia ala, no laila ia i kekahi koho koke lākou oiaio hopohopo nona.

Ua Ua manaoio aku i ka loa paʻakikī e hoʻololi i kekahi kanaka, ka mea kiʻekiʻe ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia, no ka mea, aole ia i hoolohe mai i kekahi'ōlelo aʻo, e manaoio ana oia i ike i na mea a pau maikaʻi ma mua o ka hapanui. Nā spores komo pointless no ka mea, ua kanaka loa, e nana i ka hapa ma luna o kā lākou hana. E like me psychologists i aku nei au, pakiko-ka wiwo ole - e ka mea i hele mai mai ka kamaliʻi. Ma kēia hihia, na makua overzealous,ʻilikai lākou mau keiki i nā mea maikaʻi, ke kapakai a me nā keiki'ē aʻe, ka mea allegedly loa.

Loaa understated a haahaa ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia mea he maoli. Lawa ke hoopaa ia mau aʻo kau. No ka laʻana, kākau ma ka apana o nā mea a pau o kona mau ka hana maika`i, no ka a oe ma ka liʻiliʻi loa pokole kipa haʻaheo. Mai poina e hooki aku i nā mea a pau hoao ana ma Hoʻohālikelike maikaʻi me'ē aʻe,ʻike lākou individuality. A pau ana e nema aku oe ia oe iho no kekahi kumu, aʻo e kala nīnūnē flaws (mai i kekahi, i ka papahana ma luna manawa - ka mea hana i ka a pau, akā, no ka kekahi laʻana, hana oe i aloha). Ma ke ala, nui Hobby e kokua i ka hoala mai pakiko-ʻia - scientifically ai.

No laila, ua ike ia ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia ua, e wehewehe i kona kumu o ke ano. I makemake ia ma hope o ka heluhelu i ka 'atikala oe pono, noonoo iho la lakou ia lakou iho i kekahi waeʻano, a, ina he pono, ka hana ma luna o ia mau mea, e like me ke ola i ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia - i ke ki i ka pomaikai.