Pālua, ambivalent - he haiahū kūmau a kūlohelohe waiwai?

Ke ao nei Ua multidimensional. Ke kanaka kanaka mea no hoi i straightforward , aʻaʻole hoʻokahi-kapakahi. Akā, i ka mea ana mākou a pau loa imua i loko o ka likeʻole ma o ka noʻonoʻo, manaʻo, ways, makemake - kēia mea,ʻaʻole i ka ka manaʻo pohihihi. Pinepine kekahi kanaka uaʻike piʻi i ka ia manawa kue manaʻo. Ambivalent - kēia hua'ōlelo pono o ia hoʻi, "duality", "bidirectional". Pehea la e hiki ai ke hoomaopopo a wehewehe? Like mākou mau kaua likeʻole nā makana a me ka mea e pono ai. No ka laʻana, ka mea makemake e hoʻonānea a me ka hula ma luna o kāu kamepiula i kue i ka noi 'ana i ke kaikamahine, e hele me ia i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni. Maka pua ambivalent - ia mea ia ia no a mākou e ole i ka hookahi aloha. Pinepine i pili i ka mea i aloha ai poʻe mākou i 'ike i ka pau gamut o Emotions. No ka laʻana, he nui wale o ko mākou mau kama'āina i ka moku'āina "a me ke aloha a me ka inaina." No ke aha la i keia ahaʻia nei? No ka mea, ua e hoʻokūkū ana p', manaʻo a me altruism, me ka makemake e lilo i kūʻokoʻa kanaka, a me ka pono no ka intimacy.

Ambivalent - ka mea, 'aʻole i manaʻo "hewa," a me "questionable" hua'ōlelo wale nō kēia i ka ka manaʻo pohihihi a me ka bidirectional inā pilikia ka haumāna. Ia mea i uncommon e lohe ai heluhelu moʻolelo ma i keia manawa, Hawaii Puzzle kanaka nui. Mua o nā mea a pau, i ka mea nana eʻike piʻi i kēia mau manaʻo. No ka laʻana, ina o ka make gravely inoino i aloha ai i kekahi, no ka mea, he nui loa, keia mea pono ole wale i ke poho o ka awaawa, a me ka loneliness, akā, i ke ano o ke ola .... A ia mea maʻamau no ka mea, inā pilikia ka haumāna ma kekahi hihia e ole'āhewa oe ia oe iho. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua kēlā no mākou ka instinct no ka hoʻoponopono-malama. Inā ua pau subordinated ai i ko kakou mau ola i ka mauna, ua makemake ole ua i ka ikaika, e hānai iā lakou ola. High makemake ia i ka pilikia o ka loa noʻonoʻo kāna hana.

Ambivalent - ka mea, o kekahi o ka poe "eia" a me ka "hua", ka attraction a me ka repulsion. Ma ke ola, ma laila nō pinepine ia mau manaʻo a me kino i ka. O keia ka hoʻoponopono mea no hoi ia e hiki ke ike ia lakou iho ma kaʻelua-directional lepa, mau noʻonoʻo, manaʻo. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e ia i loko o ka moku'āina o mau fluctuations like hiki. He nui ka poe nui a me ke kapuai e noi mai ana mākou hanana kākoʻo pāʻoihana. Kēia 'o ia hoʻi i kekahi aloha a me ka maka pua e waiho i kekahi. No ka laʻana, Kaniak mare, kaikamahine pinepine - a hiki nae madly i loko o ke aloha a me ka wā e hiki mai hoa i loko o ke ola - ua kawili, conflicting Emotions. I kekahi manawa ka mea, a hiki i ka manaʻo i ka mea, i ka hewa i loko o ke koho ana o ka wahine mare hoʻomaka. Akā, i ka mea o kekahi okoa: ka ambivalent e pili ana i ka mare, ua mea e maikai. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e hōʻike i kanaka makua a me ka ike o ka mea moe ma mua,ʻaʻole wale kekahi leʻaleʻa a me ka pīhoihoi, akā, i hoolaa ana, ka hana, subordination o na pomaikai wahine a me ka 'ohana.

A kekahi ambiguity hoʻomaopop 'ana i loko o ka hapanui kanaka. ʻike mau kanalua ana mākou iʻalo me ka pilikia a me ka nui a me ke kapuai - ia mea i ka paioʻana o nā manaʻo, akä, a me conflicting manaʻo. Akā, i kekahi manawa, e hoolei ana a me ka pilikia i ka wā o nā nā makakoho, uaʻoi aku olinolino a me ka conspicuous. Ma ia i kekahi kanaka i ka mea olelo i ka mea, o "ambivalent kanaka." 'Aʻole mau ia mea he noʻonoʻo kāna hana, malia o ka mea,' o ka wale pūʻulu accentuation. Ia mea, ua like kā i ka "awelike" ua he kanaka hou paha, e 'ike i ke ku pono ana i manao, hiki ole hoakaka kona wahi i pili i kekahi kanaka a me kekahi mea e hele mai i loko o pohihihi kamaʻilio.