Keiki i komo i loko o "keia" - pehea e hele i loko o kekahi kanaka makua?

Children o kamaliʻi makahiki e loa, he pono ole, he pono ole pathologicalʻano e like me keikihipa omo toys, manamana lima, kui pūkoʻa, masturbation (masturbation). A hiki ai ke ala mai ka wā o ka makua loaʻa he keiki pāʻani a me ko lakou mau wahine. Ka mua naoh - nń, i kekahi manawa, i ka makemake e hoopai aku misbehavior. Akā, ma hope o ka numbness e hele, mai i scream a paʻi i ke keiki i ka lima e paa maoli, e hana i kēia pukana a me ka maopopo ana i ka hele, a mea e hana i ka wa a na keiki e hana "ia."

Masturbation i loko o ke keiki. He aha e hana ai?

E ulu ana ke kupanaha kao, a me kekahi manawa, hele mai kekahi manawa ia e hai ana i ke keiki hoopa ole Radio me kona mau wahine. Ke ninau aicieeaao: He aha ka mea? Children ka lanakila, i mea nō maoli i loko o ka ulu ana o ka pēpē, a he pathological maʻa - masturbation (masturbation)? A ina paha he keiki ke komo i loko o "keia"?

Hoakaka o ka pilikia

Pinepine, i? Acaeoey o ke keiki 'ōili mai kuleana i loko o ke ao ana o ke kane a me ka wahine kino. Childrenʻike lākou mau na¯ a me nā mākua ke kapaʻole kino, i ka mea ia manawa i hoihoi 'emi no ia mea, e noiʻi i kou mau kino ka waiʻona ma ke. I hāʻawe makaikai i ko lakou mau wahine ma lealea, scratching, hoʻohenehene 'ana a hoopa mai ia lakou. Ma keia kulana,ʻaʻohe mea hewa, aia no he cognitive kaʻina. Akā, inā keia keiki uaʻike piʻi 'oluʻolu Emotions, i lilo Hoʻohaku, ka stimulation o ka' īnea i nā loko lilo i ka ia a eia no ia ia.

Ua mea hiki ke hana me ka "i" na keiki?

Nō kakahiaka nui i ka 2-3 makahiki, e kamailio ana me ke keiki e pili ana i masturbation, no ka mea, aole ia i ike i ka masturbation , aole ia i ike i ka mea e hoopa ia lakou iho a me na mea e ae i aikane oe wahi noʻonoʻo Mohai. Masturbation - complacency iaoia, ai ka mea naʻau hookuuia ia lŘlŘ. Pinepine "ka mea, ua" hele e moe ma ka maluhia wahi. Inā masturbation ua hanaia mau, a laila e lilo he pathological maʻa.
Inā he keiki ke noi mai ninau e pili ana i hamama 'ole o ke kino, ka mea likeʻole ma waena o ke kanaka a me ka wahine a kaikamahine, a me ka wahine, ia mea pono e hele maikaʻi i kēlā poʻe, a pane i nā keiki i ka ninau, a me ka mea hilahila no ia ole. He He kumu hoihoi, a me ka houʻanuʻu i loko o ka ulu ana o ka naau a me ka ike ana o ke ao nei. I hookuu, ka hoihoi aicieeaao ma waena o nā makahiki o ke 3 me 6 makahiki, laila mae wale aku, a adolescence.

Predictors o nā keiki a ka masturbation

• 
  Physiological - like me ka hopena o kaʻeleu temperament hookuuia koi 'ia mai ka noʻonoʻo stress.
• Manaʻoʻike - i loko o ke keiki i ka manao o ke pohō wale,ʻo ia manaʻo nei mehameha, unloved, aia no he nele i ka makua ke aloha a me ka hoolohe.
• Lapaʻau - ilihune hiamoe, a hāʻule e hiamoe ana no ke alakaʻi lōʻihi a hiki i ka pono no ka mea naʻau kala.

No hoi ke kumu i ke ano o ka masturbation hiki e nā 'ole:

• hoʻokaʻawale, mai ke kaiāulu kanaka, o na keiki;
• kiʻekiʻe excitability a me Emotions o ke keiki;
• coldness o ka makuahine, a me ka makuakane o ka impulsiveness;
• physical hoopai ana;
• ina ka politika o ke keiki ua i halawai mai me ka 'upu' ana o nā mākua.

He aha e hana ai?

No laila, wahi keiki e hana ia he pinepine. Inā 'oe Paʻa ihola iā ia i kāu keiki no ka masturbation, mua o nā mea a pau, mai i hāʻule i loko o ka swoon, scold kā lākou keiki ole, e e komo i loko o physical hainā. He mea pono e hōʻike mea keʻakeʻa, a me ka i kā mākou o tact.

Inā ke keiki mea uuku, e ho'āʻo i ka mālie hoʻololi i kona noonoo ana i kekahi mea'ē aʻe i ka hana. Inā ka mea, o ke keiki o ke kula makahiki, a malie iho la hana ua kekahi pono. A hiki aku la oia e e hiki ke hoolohe ia oe, oe e kūkākūkā i ke kulana, akā, i loko o kekahi hihia he mea hiki ole i ka hoʻomāʻewaʻewa mai a intimidate. Oia hana ma ka aoao o na makua hiki wale aggravate i ke kulana. Just hai aku oe ia oe iho ia ia ka Moana ina na keiki e hana "ia." Ke kula ke i me ia, e paa i mea kamaʻilio psychologist, akā, no hoi ma ka hale kamaʻilio me ke keiki,ʻaʻole "bombarded" ia ia.

He aha e Pono e hana i ka masturbation i ole pathological maʻa?

Ke anu u mua mea e loaʻa mai i ke kumu o ka masturbation. E ole e haawi nui nui, a intimidate i ke kao keiki keu o ka hopena o ka hewaʻano. Loa pinepine, olelo hooweliweli, a he pono nō ino i ke keiki i ka manao a me ka wāwahi i ka wā e hiki mai.

Oe hiki ole i kūkākūkā i kaʻawaʻawa loa kumuhana, e hoʻololi i nā kiʻina hana o ka hoʻonaʻauao 'ana. keiki i pinepine 'ole i keia, mai o ka nele o ka noonoo ana a me ka wā o nā makua haʻalele ia ia ia iho. Pinepine hoolea aku i ka pēpē, paipai i ka olelo ana o ko a me Emotions, haawi mai la ia ia i lawa ka nui o physical haʻawina. E hāʻawi mai i kāu keiki i ke ku okoa ana, e koho ana i ka manawalea aku pinepine me ia ma kolohe lopi, pale aku lecturing a me ka moralizing, aʻo pehea e pono pane i ka helehelena o ka io Emotions. Manawaʻia mai ana mai e pili ana i ka urology a me ka gynecology.

Ua mea no hoi e pono ai ke kanaka hoʻoponopono i ka moku'āina o ka aahu weluwelu ma ke keiki. Mau mea i ke e maemae, hōʻoluʻolu. Mai nei ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ke keiki, ana i ke kumuhana o ka masturbation ma ke alo o ka malihini, mai i hoʻoponopono ai nā nīnauele a me examinations. Kōkua i kāu keiki i loaʻa i ka Hobby, he hou lealea, e noho wale nō,ʻo ia ke malama ia ia E kuai oukou.

E pono e poina i masturbation - ia mea he ala o ka noho pakele o io Emotions. Inā e wehe i ke anakahi uila kumu, a me ka nele, e nalo pakī o Emotions. Inā he pathological maʻa pilikia a hiki i ka makahiki o ka 10, oe e nīnau aku i ka hoʻomalu, no ka mea, i ke kumu o ka masturbation i keia makahiki hiki e kena ae la ma ka aoao o ke kanaka me ka noʻonoʻo 'kāna hana.

Hoomahuahua ae la lakou hyper keiki a kakahiaka nui psychosexual ulu ke alakai i ka masturbation. na keiki he nui loa i komo i loko o keia, no ka mea, ka mea hiki ole Makuakane me na hoike ana mai o ka wanaʻao? acaeoey. Hoʻoweliweli ma keia kulana mea lapuwale. Children Pono kou kōkua, a me ka naauao. Oe e ike i kakahiaka nui psychosexual? Acaeoey hiki a me ka pono ke hana, i ole ia a laila entrenched masturbation e hiki i nui ka noʻonoʻo 'kāna hana i loko o nā keiki.

ma ka hopena

Na makua hooikaika, e hoʻopau i nā trappings o ka pilikia e ole ke hoʻoponopono i ke kumu o ka pathologicalʻano. No ka Kāohi E e e normalize i ke ana i loko o ka 'ohana, ka AaOIeIOUIeXAOAaIN me ke keiki, i ka pahee hilinai pilina me ia. Me ka mea naʻau pono o ke keiki i loko o ka malama a me ka aloha, mau hoonohonoho ianoa physical hana, e like me he hoʻonui i ke kūpono 'ana o ke keiki kaʻike hoʻokumu. A laila, i ka pilikia o ka poe keiki i hana "ia" e nalo ia iho!