Pehea e le'a ai i kahi mea pā'ani no ke keiki me kou lima pono'ī

Wahi a psychologists,'o kēlā me kēia keiki e 2.5-3 mau makahiki, pono iā ia ke hana i nā mea hana lole, a hiki iā ia ke no'ono'o i kāna waiwai. I ka wā o ka pā'ani, e makemake ana ke keiki i ka'imi'ana iā lākou, no laila he mea makemake e ho'oka'awale nā mea pā'ani a hana'ia nā mea like'ole. Ma waena o lākou he mea pono e la'a.

'Oia'i'o, e kū'ai wale'ia nā mea pā'ani, akā'oi aku ka'olu'olu no ka mea e lilo nā keiki i mea'a'ahu, me kona mau lima pono'ī i hana'ia i ka'ili a i ka uha paha i hana'ia. Hiki iā'oe ke leka i kahi nani, a'o ka mea nui loa -'o kahi mea pā'ani like.

Pehea e le'a ai i kahi mea pā'ani?

'O ka mea mua e mālama ai,'o ia ke'ano o nā lako. Pono'oe e loa'a i nā kaula a me nā pihi, nā'ili a me ka hulu, ka lole a me ke kā'ei, i mana'o'ia. Ma ke'ano he mea ho'onani, hiki iā'oe ke ho'ohana i ka hamo kapi, ka hulu manu, sintepon, holofayber. Hiki ke ho'ohana'ia nā pākeke like'ole ma kahi o nā pa'i a me ka maka.

Mana'o e pili i ke'ano o ka humuhumu'ana i kahi mea pā'ani, e ho'okalaka i ka pono o ka wāwae, kahi'ano'ele'ele o nā kola, nā wili a me nā pulupulu. Maoli ai, kekahi o ka meaʻoki, a me oe, e hooko koke ia i kona kūlana,ʻaʻole me ka chalk, sartorial kenimika aliʻi, kope pepa. E hana'ia ke ki'ikuhi o ka pā'ani o ka wā e hiki mai ana i ka waea a me ka pepa pahu. He mea pono e loa'a iā'oe he mīkini ka'a. Akā, inā e hana ole - mea ole scary: Children ka toys me kā lākou mau lima kui o ko makou nui-kupunawahine, a kamaʻilio me wale i ka kuikele. 'O ka mea nui,'o ia ke hiki ke wili lima, e hana ana i kahi kaula.

Pehea e le'a ai i kahi mea pā'ani no ke keiki ma nā papa hana i ho'omākaukau'ia

'Ike i kahi'ano kūpono no ka hana'ana i nā mea le'ale'a i kēia mau lā'a'ole ia he pilikia - ua hana'ia ke'ano o nā pepa li'ili'i i nā manawa, a ua ho'olako'ia nā puke kūikawā me nā'ano maika'i o nā hua like'ole, me nā mea hana. Hiki nō ho'i iā'oe ke ho'ohana i nā alana i ho'ouka'ia ma nā pūnaewele i ho'ola'a'ia i nā keiki, kahi hana'imi a me ka ho'okele'ohana. Inā makemake'ia, hiki iā'oe ke kū'ai i loko o ka hale kū'ai o nā mea hana a nā keiki i kahi i ho'onohonoho pono'ia, a'o nā mea a pau āu e makemake ai e pena i kahi pā'ani e ho'oka'awale'ia.

'O ka ho'okumu'ana i kahi huahana kūikawā e ho'okō'ia kou mau mana'o. E ho'oholo pehea e hana ai i kahi mea pā'ani, aha ka mea a me ka hopena e ho'ohana ai, pono'oe e hana iā'oe iho. Aia kahi ho'onohonoho i kū'ai'ia i ke a'o'ana i ka pehea e hana ai i ka hana. No ka loa'a'ana o kahi hopena maika'i, pono'oe e mālama pono i kēia.

'O ka hō'ailona'ana i nā mea hiki ke lilo ka'ohana a pau. 'O kāu mau kōkua maika'i loa he po'e keiki. Ma kēia hana ho'olālā e ho'āla i ko lākou makemake a e lilo loa ia i mea maika'i no ka ulu'ana o kahi mea li'ili'i. 'O ia mau hana e mālama i ka ho'omanawanui a me ka ikaika, e ho'oulu i ka nānā, i nā'oihana.

'O ka pono o ka hana a ke keiki pono ka nānā'ana o ka mea makua, pono e ha'i'ia i ke pēpē e pili ana i nā kula papa no ka mālama pono'ana i nā wili a me nā kola.

I ka nānā mua'ana,'o ia'ano'oihana, e like me ke kāhili'ana i nā mea pā'ani, e like paha me he mea lapuwale. Eia na'e, inā hiki iā'oe ke loa'a kahi niche li'ili'i ma ka māna kū'ai ho'omana'o, hiki i ka hana'ana i ka lole wikiwiki loa e lilo i'oihana maika'i no ka'ohana a pau.