E kamailio ana ma ke kelepona - i like ka paakiki me ka mea āu e

Phone - keia mea kekahi o na hana nui o ka kanaka. Ma mua o ka Hekikai o oaeaoiiiie nayce i ka mamao i Ua loa paʻakikī, ua weheʻia ke kelepona i loko o ke alo o kanaka, he oiaio weliweli kūpono. Eia naʻe, a me ka C. Brewer pono o ke kelepona, ka poʻe i loaʻa ke kumu e ia hou pilikia. He nui nā kanaka kekahi mea e hiki ke alakai i ka maʻamauʻano ma ke kelepona, a me ka pono mai i makemake i ka hana ia ana i loa sociable kanaka i loko o ka huakai. He aha ka ke kelepona kamailio mea okoa mai ka maʻamau kamaʻilio?

Ka nui, e hoike ana i ke kelepona kamailio mea i ole-waha 'kamaʻilio. Ma waho aʻeo i ka leo, ka leo o ka leo , etc. he kanaka, aole ia i loaa mai ka interlocutor mea ole hou 'ike i ka i ka mea, ua i hoʻohana' ia, unconsciously, o ka papa, manao. A kanaka me ka mahalo ulu nā mea hiki nonverbal Ka Ikepili mai i makemake e kamailio ana ma ke kelepona. Eia naʻe, i loko o ke kālā no ke kaiāulu kanaka, me ka mea anywhere. I ma ka liʻiliʻi loa elua mau mea o ke ola i ke kelepona like nui no na kanaka - i pāʻoihana halawai , a oia i olelo kono i kekahi kaikamahine ma luna o ka lā. Girls mea no hoi pinepine i hiki ke kamailio ma ke kelepona, akā, e like me ke kanaka e hana me ka initiator, ke kaikamahine lanakila lākou makaʻu i kona wahi maʻalahi.

Ke kanaka mea e literally pāhawewe hou hilinai like i loko o ka noho me ka pāʻoihana hoalawepu, a ma ke kamailio ana me ka wahine, i makemake oia. Ke wale oiaio, o ka leo ikaika, e loaa ia i loko o kēia mau mea. Ma ke ala, i loko o kēia mau wahi, i hiki, ua nui na mea like. Ua mea hiki ole, akā, i mea ai, no ka mea, i loko o nā hihia a pau i nā Pahuhopu kanaka - e loaa, ina paha ka mea, 'o ka lā a me ka hana maikai.

No laila, ina kou pahu hopu - i ka lā - oe e loa nui e koho i ke kumuhana o ke kamailio ana ma ke kelepona. Mai huli i kou kamailio ana i loko o ka hapa-hora kamailio ana - no ka mea, e oe i lawa manawa i ka lā. Oe i, e haawi aku i ke kaikamahine e ike koke i ke kumu no ka a au i kapa aku ai iā ia. Ma keia hihia, e hoailona oukou i ka ina oe e ole kama'āina, ia IeAUPIIe, IAa IO hoomaka i ke kamailio ana me ka kūlana pale kulana. Ke kaikamahine Ua makau hoopunipuni ia oe ia ia, e pāʻani i ka liana a ma luna ona, ho'āʻo e ia i nā mea a lākou e'ōlelo ka mea e, etc. Eia hou, ua makau iho la ia i ka mea e e ino i ka lā: manakā, awkward ...

Pela no oe i ke hoʻomaka i ka noho ma luna o ka kelepona ho'āʻo ana e wawahi i keia hau. E'ōlelo akuʻoe akaka, aku, loaʻa oʻApelila ia, e hōʻike ana i ke anaina mea o ka nui ia oe, a ia oe kau i loa seriously. Mai poina i ka hai aku ia ia ia oe e hana ma luna o ka lā, i ka wa ia e e hiki ke hele mai i ka hale, etc. I mau, hana na mea a pau, e hooki mai ia ia mai ka worrying.

¶ A ma hope o ia, e like me ka pahuhopu ua hiki, hooki aku i kou kamailio pu mai la ma ke kelepona, a me ka loa e holo aku oe i ke kamepiula, e hāʻule nō ia i kou mana 'ölelo kupua, a ua hoʻololi i kona manao. Ka hou e kamaʻilio o apuepue hoʻokō, akā, e hana i ka hewa, a luku i ka ka pukaʻana hiki lā wale.

All kōkua palapala luna hiki ke hoopuni i nā pāʻoihana ke kūkā '. Ma keia hihia, oe e pakele haalele aku haole kumuhana apau loa. Pane maikaʻi i noi mai i ka interlocutor chores, a olalo neposrdestvenno e kūkākūkā i ka kumuhana. E hana ana i manawa mea i kaupalena 'ia, no laila, i ke kumu, no kaʻoiaʻiʻo, e mahalo i kou hiki e olelo aku ma ka waiwai, a kuhikuhi oe me ka pāʻoihana kanaka. E mālama i ka ikaikaʻano, e hoʻopaʻai ka noho i loko o kou pale kaua a me ka hilinai i kona hoa. Makakū kanaka malie, hoʻokolokolo pono a me ke akamai.

Oe e hoomanao i ka papa kuhikuhiE mea i loko o ke kelepona kamailio ana, a pau ia e ia - o ka hiki no ka mea i hana ai. Oe eʻaʻole pono e kahaha pehea e aʻo e mālama i ka poepoe ua hiolo, no ka mea, o oukou, ma ka rula, e ole e pono ai i kona kākoʻo. E kiʻi mai ka interlocutor mea e makemake, a haʻalele iā ia i manawa e manaʻo, a me nā mea a pau i ke aloha a me ka extraneous i kamaʻilio maikaʻi waiho ia no ka noho hui ana.