Kanaka - ia ... e hoʻokolokolo i ka manaʻo

Muli o kona kulana pinepine mākou i lohe i ka olelo "kanaka." Kēia mea e kahaha ko oukou naau, no ka mea, ke noho i loko o ke kaiāulu i ua ike ia e mahalo ee iaaanu aey. He ka wahi, a me nā luna, a me ka awelika kanaka, a, o ka papa, i ka poʻe i kipakuʻia.

Paha mau i hala aku, he a, e ia poe, no kekahi kumu paha kekahi mai i pono i loko o ke kime. Mau kanaka a hiki scientifically hōʻike '. Penei, he kanaka - o kekahi kanaka nāna i kekahiʻano o ka noho ana, e huli mai, e like me ka mea i hoʻoikaika mai kēlāʻaoʻao o ka malu i loko i ka mea i koe.

No ke aha lā i loaʻa keia kanaka? E hoomanao, i loko o kou papa ua aneane oiaio kekahi o ka mea hana ino mau a mentally, a me ia mea oi loa o kona makau i, kāohi. Pela ka mea i ke kumu no keia e pili ana i ke kanaka? Ka mea i kēlā me kēia ahu iho la ua maheleia i loko o ke kaiāulu nōʻoi aʻe papa (a niche), a ua haawiia mai i kekahi mau helu o nā wahi kanaka me kekahi statuses. No ka laʻana, aia ua mau e like me ka nohona pūʻulu like "waiwai". Ke kula, e like me ka rula, keiki a me nā kaikamāhine, mai waiwai mauʻohana. Aia mau no hoi no laila,-kapaia "awelike" - keiki, hana ole pakahi aku la ia kamahaʻo, iloko olaila i ka maikai ana me classmates a me na kumu. A, o ka papa, ua haawiia mai i kekahi hana wahi ana i kanaka. He hana hoihoi 'ia ka mea, i ole maoli hiki ole e. Naʻe, i ka helu nui o ekolu, he, i nā kānaka apau ke ola, e like me ke kaiāulu pono kekahi, no ka "he pua kiele o hope."

Inā no kekahi kumu 'ole kekahi kanaka ua mai o ke kime, kona wahi koke, e lawe kekahi mea'ē aʻe. No ke aha? Children (a me nā mākua) nā loina kākaʻikahi OAOOUIEeE manaʻo kanaka. Kanaka - keia mea ma ka lilo ana o nā mea a pau na mea e ae i haha aku maikaʻi, "ma luna." Ka mea, 'ike i ka mea, i ka helu ana o drawbacks (i akamai loa, nani, physical kūpono' ana, a no laila, ma luna o. D.), Akā, no ka mea, ka mea, e pono e ike i loaʻa ka kekahi ino loa ma mua o ka mea, i.

Anei oe i kekahi wahi kanaka kolohe nei i kekahi like hoailona? Pehea e hooholo i ka loa paha i kekahi kanaka (keiki ole makua) - he typical kanaka? Ke unequivocal pane i kēia mau nīnau. Eia naʻe, e like me ka rula, kanaka me ke kino kīnā, e hoopili, mai i ikaika nā mea hiki i ka mea a pau. Ia mea, ka mea, initially - i ka nāna. Ma ka kekahi lima, aia nō hihia ka wā i ke kumu no ka io kino i ka mea, ma ka mea ku ole, poʻokela akamai. Ia mea ke kumu o ka helu o ke kalohe pinepine nā hanohano.

E like me ka 'ikepili helu, ka loa pinepine hookipaiaʻe e ke kula psychologist - mea'ē. I ka nui o ka 'ōlelo a me ke keiki o ka palapala hōʻoia no kauka hiki ole ke overestimated. Ma ke kaʻina hana o ka nooaai? I ou wahi lihi iki o ka manawa e haawi mai ai i nä kona ikaika, pololei nawaliwali, e like me ka hoʻohana 'ana o keʻano o ke kino ma ka mea no ia e mentally hoʻonānea.

I loko nō o ka mea i kekahi kanaka'ē - mea kuhikuhi i ka pilikia o ka like, a ua i mai o kanaka o ke kula makahiki, a ma luna hoʻonaʻauao kulanui, a ma ka hana, keia kŰia i hala loa he ākea.

O ka poe ua nui kou manaʻo e pili ana paha e hoihoi i loko o ka pilikia, a mākou i scratched wale i kaʻili hookolokolo aku la ia i loko o ka 'atikala, au makemake e kuhikuhi, e heluhelu i kekahi puke. Ua kapaia o "Geniuses a me kanaka" (kākau - M. Gladwell). Mākou manaʻolana i mea e kōkuaʻoe maopopo nui nīnūnē, a lilo ikaika.