Mobbing - He aha ka mea? Ke kumu no ka mobbing, kona o Mānoa, a pehea e 'alo

E hele mai ana i ka hou hui, he pilikia i pono i loko o konaʻikena ola e like me kekahi mau rula, ma laila e kauoha ana i ka io e pili ana i kona nā hoapili a me kaʻoi aʻe nō hoʻi. Ua pono, ina e hiki koke maopopo i ko lakou mau hewa a me ka hooponopono ia, akā, inā i ka hoʻomaka o ka confrontation, no kela kumu kekahi,ʻaʻohe, he hou limahana hiki ia he luahi no ka mau ole nae, hoʻowahāwahā, kahakaha, e like me ka pono me ka poe liilii, a me ka nui ka hewa. O kŰia ma kaʻike manaʻo ua kapaia "mobbing". He aha ka mea, a pehea e 'alo ia, e kūkākūkā mākou i loko o au mamuli hope i loko o kēia' atikala.

Ka oko ao ma waena o mobbing a me ka hana i kāna hana

Mua o nā mea a pau, e pono e maopopo pono ai kā mobbing mai ka mau squabbles, pinepine i loko o kekahi hui. No ka laʻana, i ka wa a ke Alii i ka hookolokoloia no ka sloppiness, no ka mea, au i poina i ka hoouna kahi palapala, a laila 'oe kekahi lele, mai kona kakauolelo, ka nani a iā mākou i kēia aʻo i kekahi mau manawa - e Aloha i kekahi hana, a me ka naoh i kou carelessness.

Akā, inā e hele mai i ka hana, no ka kekahi laʻana, e mau e hoolohe mai i ka hopuna'ōlelo mai nā hoapili: "E, e hele mai, a ua manao kekahi kaʻa pa, a, ma hope, e hoopakele mai, mai kona mau hoa a pau!" A loaʻa ia oe i loko o kou kamepiula holoiia nui AEIU, i kāwili pūʻia nā palapala, a ma luna o ka papa, he apana o ka punahele mau kīʻaha, etc., laila, loa paha oe - .. ka luahi o ka mobbing.

Kekahi eiiaiaeu e like hoʻopailua kŰia kānāwai i loko o ka pilina ma waena o kēia kanaka. No ka laʻana, i ke Alii Hawaii kekahi, mai subordinates, e hoike ana seemingly unwarranted manaʻoe hōʻeha. Kēia manaʻoʻike kŰia ua kapaia "hoʻoweliweli."

He aha e hoʻonāukiuki mobbing

Penei, hoʻoweliweli a me ka mobbing - He aha ka mea? I ka mea hoʻonāukiuki? E like me ka mea huli mai, ka hapanui o nā kumu o kēiaʻike manaʻo i loa maopopo, a me kekahi o ia mau mea i lilo i haʻahaʻa ka ukiuki.

Manao wale no kekahi minute - i loko o ke kaiāulu, kahi o ka muli loa limahana loa-forties, hele mai ana i ke keiki, piha i ka ikaika a me ka ikehu hana. Ua mea maopopo i ka mea e oleʻae koke me na lima hohola. A me kona wā'ōpiopio, a me ka ola kino, a me ka hiki, e oluolu e kekahi 'oihana e ho'āla noho i loko o ko lakou mau nohoalii, "mossy" nā hoapili huāhuā ka.

A ina ua moe hou iho nei i ka poe kanaka lōʻihi o ua wae mai ai i waena o ke kookoo, akā,ʻaʻole loa e hoʻokele e pii i ka hui kālepa hulili, ka mea hiki ke hele aku, a hiki ma pilikino iʻini ma waho: e hoao i ka piha kēia kēnā o kekahi o kona mau nā hoapili. E like me ka mea ua ana i wae i ka nawaliwali, a me ke kaʻina ia e leie wahi kanaka kolohe nei ka palu i manao nui personalities.

Mobbing - he hoailona o ka palaualelo

Nā nâ hui me ka pono i hoʻonohonoho 'ia, a me nā kuleana o nā limahana e mobbing loa pinepine. I hana, kahi kanaka pono i hana, o ka hana ole, a nana no i kekahi manawa i ka manawa, e pepehi, i kapaia ka kŰia ka mea e hiki ke lawe ia, hookonokono ae a e i ka manaʻoi ka'āina.

Ma ia mau ana, ka mea e paha i kekahi workaholic ke kalohe. "He aha, e pono oi ma mua o kekahi meaʻokoʻa aku? He aha hana oe dia ma mua o ka Alii "-? I ka ka mau eha ma ka naau manaʻo hoʻopiʻi kū'ē. Ma ke ala, i ka oi aku prone i keia kŰia Kane, ma a he mea hiki ole ke hoʻoneʻe aku i loko o kou kūlana hana, ina oe e ole he punahele o ke aʻa Makehewa.

Ke kumu no ka mobbing

Ke kumu o ka mobbing hiki ia he uaua Competition. Nō kāu, i loko o ia ka hihia, ka luahi i ole i haha aku i ka kūikawā ole nae, pono ia ia mea ma kekahi wahi o ka hindrance ma ke ala a hiki i ka makemake wahi a ka uku makahiki.

Ua mea, e ike i mobbing i hana ka loa pinepine pahuna me ka kekahi pūʻulu, aee ?? ma kanaka i nui. E like me kekahi ', noiʻi, kona mōhai kamaʻilioʻana, e lilo whiners, nāwaliwali a me ka notorious personalities, a ua ku mai (ai-kapa keʻokeʻo ka moa), surly a me ka unsociable a weird loners. A pau no ia hiki i kou nā hoapili a me kaʻoi aʻe nō hoʻi ae hookaawale a me ka makemake e subjugate a nei ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa.

Once hou e pili ana i ka poe hiki ke lilo i luahi o ka mobbing

About na kanaka loaa ma lalo o ka manaʻoʻike puʻe, e pono e hai mai ia makou aku, no ka mea, ma ka a me ka nui, hiki ia i kekahi wahi ma ka mobbing nāna. A ma ke alanui, i kue i ka hoʻolale Ohana a hoʻoweliweli o ka classmate i loko o ke kula kiʻekiʻe ka wā IeAUPIIe, IAa IO AIM e hoolilo i ka luahi, a e kona nāwaliwali-Ke makemake nei anei, mobbing ua hoʻohana 'ana i ka mea o ka mea e makemake e pakele ana, ikaika e hoʻokanaka.

Mobbing i loko o ka hui hiki ke hōʻike i ka helu wahi me lākou, i kekahi pilikia no ka mea kahiko-nō hoʻi, a me ka hiki mākaukau poe hana, hahau i kona nā hoapili e hana eha iaʻi mai ka inferiority eiiieaena.

Styleʻoi aʻe nō hoʻi, e veer mai o ka paonioni, a me na 'lii haʻahaʻa-kiʻekiʻe ho'āʻo i "laila kaomi mai" i mea e puku ia lakou me ka oi "aloha" a me ka pliable. Muli o kona kulana pinepine mobbing hooleiiaʻi mawaho hilahilaʻole, ua pakiko-ka paulele a me ka arrogant kookoo (ka luahi mea e mau loa ana me he anela) no ka mea, o ka mea mau manaʻoe hōʻeha i kā lākou mau kanaka paha kanaka i haalele ai i ke kaumaha o ke aloha, a me kekahi manawa i ka mea mea a me ka moe ino ma ka aoao o ke Aupuni (e like me ka rula, keia pili ma ka bullied).

Pehea e mobbing

No keia mea kahi e ulu mobbing (ma kula 'ole ma o ka oihana), ka mea hele ma kekahi mau kūlana. A me ke kumu no ka muli o kēia manaʻoʻike kŰia IeAUPIIe, IAa IO he unhealthy aniau i loko o ka hui, a ua wahie ma kiʻekiʻe mea naʻau hoʻopilikia. Hope lōʻihi e like keia hiki ole, nolaila, nā lālā o ka like unconscious e huli no ka "hewa", i mau kona huli ana mai ia e kekahi poe mea he mau mea ukiuki loa (i kamaʻilio mua mākou e pili ana i ka wahine paha, o ka luahi).

Ka helu wahi o ka mea koho "kao hele" hoʻomaka e ninini kahakaha a me ka hoomaewaewa ia. Over manawa, keia i kekahi wahi i lawe pio aku, a me ka kaʻina o Hoʻoweliweli limahana paha classmates ua paakiki i imi e nei ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka luahi, e pili ana i ka holo a puni ka mea, i loko o ka palapala o ka nele o ka 'ōlelo a me kākoʻo, a, o ka papa, hiki ole lakou aloha ia ma luna o ka hana ana o ka hana mau hana.

Ka la mahope, i ka huli, ke kumu'ōhumu maiʻoi aʻe nō hoʻi, o ka oi aku ina ia mea,ʻaʻole loa hoihoi i loko o ke ola o kona mau subordinates. E like me ka hopena o ka luahi o ka mobbing i, e haʻalele i ke kime.

ʻano likeʻole o ka mobbing

Iʻike manaʻo, he mea mau hoailona ia mea i kapaʻia puʻe: ka ai-kapa keʻokeʻo a me ka eleele. ʻOiai ka mea, ua ike ia i ka pā o ka mobbing, aole ia i ke kaukaʻi wale aku ia mea "waihoʻoluʻu" -ʻo ia ma lalo o kekahi kūlana o ka hoailona o unhealthy, a me ka pinepine wale sadistic kekahi kanaka.

"White" (Latent) mobbing akaka ma ka sly. Ka puʻe ua ana i hūnāʻia, a me nā limahana i 'ae ikaika ho'āʻo ana e hoʻomamao aku ia ia iho mai o kekahi mea a pau a misdeeds. Ka mea, ka hoʻonaʻauao i ke kanaka Kahalaopuna e like me ka luahi, wale no hoi manene a me ka hana kupua.

Ma ke ala, ua hana ka loa insidious, mai koa haule iho ma lalo o puʻe mau nīnau kā lākou mau 'oihana a me ka pilikino ano, a unsuccessfully ho'āʻo i ka hoʻoikaika' ana i nā hoapili.

"Black" mobbing - mea he hamama kaua. Mobbers pela i haawi ai ka luahi, e ike i ka mea, he mea eʻoluʻolu, a me ka papa hākālia nō i ka limahana mea,ʻaʻole he wahi i loko o ke kime. Ma keia mea, ua i kākoʻo 'ia e ka' ē aʻe.

Mea hana 'mobbing

Mobbing a hoʻoweliweli (ka o Mānoa, a me kāu kiʻina hana o ka confrontation, ke noonoo i loko o kēia 'atikala) e hoikea mai oia, i loko o kekahi mau' lākou o ka mea paahana hoomaau ana.

Loa pinepine ia mea he 'auʻa laulā, e like me ka hopena o i ka limahana lilo waleʻike makaʻole i kā lākou nā hoapili, i kekahi i mea kamaʻilio iā ia,' aʻole e kaʻana like i ka lono, ka mea, aole e kapa aku ai no ka hui kālepa poe, a i ole ia kāpae'ōlelo kona alo.

Pinepine, i ka luahi hoʻohana manaʻo carping. Kēia hana He oi loa oiaio no ke poo ma ka pili ana i ka luahi-kauwa.

No ka beginners mea pinepine hoʻohana ', a me ka mea kaua e like me disinformation. No ka laʻana, ina he hoao ana i ka luna nana i häʻawi mai ai iä lawe i ka patronage ma luna o ka malihini, manao ma ka hope pelapela enemi,ʻo ia ke hōʻike hewa paha ka nānaina i kekahi 'ike, a i like me ka hopena o keʻano'ōhumu mai me ka' oihana kiʻekiʻe o nā poʻo o ka lānai hou aponoia, a me kona hoʻokuʻu.

Luahi o ka mobbing ke hao a me pilikino e pili ana, a me ka poe no a ka mea mea hiki no, a ma kekahi hihia e hooweliweli ana i ke ola o nā kiʻina hana noi (laxative kī a me ka anu u - akā, oe aole ike ma ia scoundrel lawa paʻakikī!).

He aha e au e hana e hōʻalo ai i ke kanaka me ka mobbing

I mea e pale ia ai kekahi hiki kaua i loko o ka hou hana, oe e ike koke hana i ka lākou o kekahi rula:

• Oe e ole e pono ai ke hōʻike aku. Successes a ahuwale pono kekahi o ka kookoo hiki e ka lolouila kookoo. Huāhuā, e like me ko oukou ike ana, Ua hiki e pahu aku ai kanaka i ka hapanui paakiki-hitting hana, no laila, mai lākou e ala hou ia: mai kaena ka mea waiwai admirer,'āina hoʻohiwahiwa Kauai, kaa, i loaa me ka makana, a no laila, ma luna o ..
• E ho'āʻo i koke apono i nā kānāwai ma i ka like ola. Ma kekahi kaiāulu, aia no he 'ano lōʻihi manawa, inevitably ka muli o keʻano o ka hui kālepaʻo Samuel, i noho aupuni aku ai a pau o kona mau lala. Ke kanaka ignores ia (ke kākoʻo '-Mea hoʻolako kikowaena aoao, he pāpā ma no makeup i loko o ka wahiʻoihana, Hawaii ma ka hanohano o kona lā hānau' ole kekahi 'ē ohana hang, a no laila, ma luna o. P.), ka pilikia triggering i ka hopena maikaʻi heluia, o nā hoapili, a hiki loa i oi.

Kohu kūpono hana - he ala e pale aku mobbing

Ka luna rula hiki ke inā a me kekahi mau 'ikamu i e pale mobbing:

• Ma ka hui ana o ka mea hoʻomaka mea mea mea nui e koke oholo kona hoʻomaʻamaʻa alakaʻi, e kiʻi kā lākou kākoʻo.
• Oe Pono e e keakea i loko o kona mau māmala'ōlelo e hōʻike ana: Mai Mai belittle nā hoapili, aʻaʻoleʻia e pili ana i ia mau mea.
• Mai pane a mai i lawe hewa i ka quip.
• E nā mea a pau aloha a me ka welinaʻana, akā,ʻaʻole fawn a grovel.
• Mai ae e nei ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa lākou iā lākou iho, me ia ma kekahi hui 'aʻole i like me ke akahai a me ka nawaliwali.
• E ho'āʻo e kamailio akea mai la lakou me ka hewa, akā, ia mea nui ia ia i ka mea ia manawa mālie a me ka ole hele i ka'ōlelo hōʻinoʻana. E kau ma ka lae nīnau: "au i kekahi mea au e i makemake?" E maopopo mobbers mea e maopopo ai ka pilikia a me ka mea i hele e noho malie.

Ka hopena o ka mobbing

All kōkua E kōkua i loaʻa ai ma ka liʻiliʻi loa kń kue wahi, i hiki i helu 'ia ma luna. A me keia mea nui, e like me ka mobbing a me ka hoʻoweliweli i ka hopena mea nui no ka poe i ua hana ino ia mai. Like nā 'ano o ka hanaʻino i oleloia hiki ole ke hele unnoticed: ma Europe, no kekahi laʻana, oaeuiinoe ia 10% o nā kanaka olohelohe ia lakou i ka puʻe ma ka hana ana he pepehi anaʻia iā iho.

He nui no ka mōhai ma luna o ke kumu o ka ikaika stress e hoʻomōhala ana i Kanikani'āʻula, neurotic Hawaii a me ka hoʻonāwaliwali i ka'ōnaehana paleʻea'ōnaehana, a, o ka papa, hiki ole pili i ka hiki kā lākou hana apau e hana.

Pehea e hele luahi o ka mobbing

E Nihi Ka paha hoʻomaopopo mai i ke 'atikala i nā puke, kahi a mākou i ana no ka mobbing, mea ia mea - he kīnā o likeʻike manaʻo, a hiki alakai i ka mea nui hopena. Nolaila, ina he mea ala, e pale aku hoomaau - hoʻokuʻu - Ua unacceptable, a me ka luahi ua maoli manaʻo lākou mau wahi o ka hana, e mea pono ia e kela ho'āʻo pono e kahea a Mānoa ua pōkole-ola:

• Ke kahua ma ka wahi mua e e wehe i ka manawa, e hana i ka hōʻike i ko lakou nawaliwali, a hoʻoikaika i ka ano kāna moʻolelo i kōkua e hana i käna stress.
• Ka luahi E ho'āʻo i Kuhakuha aku la kekahi o ka ho'āhewa wale ina ka mea, i loa hewa ole, a me ka mea, ke lawe mai i nā hualoaʻa. Mobbers e ike i ka mea hiki ole e hana ino i ka hana ino i ka luahi, haʻalele lākou mau hoao ana.
• He manawa e hiki ke hoakoakoa i ka hui o ka e like hoonaaukiekie oe kanaka, hiki hoi ke ponoʻole 'alo i ka Wiliama.
• E huli i nā haipule i hiki ke pale aku ho'āhewa wale.
• E huli i ka psychologist.

A me ka hapanui o importantly - e pono e aʻo i kaʻakaʻaka i iho a me mobbers, a ma kekahi manawa hiki ke lawe i ka wahi o ka luahi (aʻaʻohe kekahi i ike pehea la oia e Makuakane me keia kulana!).

A mau hua'ōlelo i loko o ka hopena

Mea naʻau hainā i hana - he kŰia iʻelemakule e loli ai ole wale i ka luahi, akā, ma luna o ka mea a pau kime. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ka mea hiki ole hou ia ma ka piha ikaika, a hooko haawiia mai ai i ko lakou mau kuleana - na pomaikai a me kanaka ka noonoo ana e huli ala e hiki aku ai i kekahi.

Nolaila, nā man- akia e i ka ikaika pulakaumaka ma luna o ka hoʻokumu o ka maʻamau hana lewa i waena o? Aaiuo, eʻoiaʻiʻo e i kaua kipi kāna hana e lawelawe i kane manaopaa, koke, a ma mull wale. Wale ia he kokoke loa i kahi e,ʻaʻole ae limahana, e aʻo i ka paakiki ala i ia mea i lokoʻino mobbing.