Nā pōmaika'i no nā mākua makua'ole ma Rusia

'O nā mea a pau, pinepine ka wahine i kēia manawa i luna i kona mau po'ohiwi pō'ino, a ma nā hana ma'amau e hana pono ka'ohana:'o kahi wahine e hānai i kahi keiki wale nō. Ho'ohui wale'ia, e lilo i makuahine ho'okahi, a ma ka'ike pinepine, e no'ono'o pono ana i kēia ho'oholo. Iā lākou e pili ana i nā makuahine o kēia wā,'o lākou wale nō e hānai kā lākou mau keiki, a he'ōlelo nō ho'i.

I ka po'e,'o ka wahine nāna e hānai i kāna keiki wale nō i kapa'ia he makuahine ho'okahi. Ma ke kānāwai,'a'ole hiki iā lākou ke kū i kēia kūlana. No laila hiki ke kapa'ia he wahine nāna:

- hānau i ke keiki ma ka male'ana a'a'ole ho'i i emi ma lalo o 10 mau mahina ma hope o ka pau'ana o ka male;

- 'a'ole i ho'okumu i ka makuahine o ke keiki ma ka ho'olimalima a i ka ho'okolokolo paha;

- mare (a i'ole ma mua) i ka mea i hakakā i ka makuahine, a'o ka ho'oholo o ka 'aha ho'okolokolo'a'ole'o ia ka makuakāne o ke keiki;

-'a'ole i mare, akā hānai i keiki.

'O kekahi la'ana,'o ka wahine, i ka manawa ma hope o ka make'ana o kāna kāne, e ulu nui ana i kahi keiki a ke keiki,'a'ohe ona kūlana a'a'ole i loa'a iā ia kekahi mau pono.

He aha nā mea i waiho'ia no nā mākua ho'okahi?

Hā'awi'ia ko mākou kūlana i nā pono kūikawā. 'Oiai,'o lākou, e like me nā wāhine makuahine, loa'a nā pōmaika'i a me nā uku'ana,'o ia ho'i: kahi'āpana ho'olimalima no ka hebedoma he'umikumamālua o ka wā hānau; Nā mea e uku ai no ka makuahine; hoʻokahi-aku uku ma ka hanau keiki ka; uku o ka makahiki i ka eono no ka child mālama (malama); 'O ka ha'awina manawa o kahi keiki.

Akā,'o ka nui o kēia mau pono he mea'oko'a loa ia mai ka nui o nā uku i nā makua ma'amau. I kekahi manawa, loa'a kekahi mau kōkua hou ma nā wahi like'ole o ka Russian Federation e kāko'o i nā wāhine i loa'a ke kūlana o nā makuahine makua'ole.

Eia kekahi la'ana ma Moscou, ke uku mau'ia nei nā makuahine ho'okahi i ka malama: e uku hou i nā lilo e pili ana i ka ho'onui'ana i ka uku o ka noho'ana a me ka ulu'ana o ka mea'ai no kahi keiki ma lalo o 3 mau makahiki. Hā'awi'ia ka māhele kōkua, nā pono i ka makuahine i ka po'e mālama, ke hānai'ana i nā keiki a hiki i'ekolu makahiki.

Inā ka makuahine hana, a me ka 'ike e pili ana i ka makua kāne i ke keiki kāne i ole, ua komo i loko o ka hanau ana palapala o ke keiki, ka mea e haawiia e ka palua ana o ka mea maʻamau i auhau nui. Hiki ke hā'awi'ia aku ia ho'ohemo i ka makua, ho'okahi makua, ai'ole ka makua hānai, kahu, kahu.

He makua kū ho'okahi ko kekahi makuahine:

1. Ho'olaha no kahi keiki a hiki i ho'okahi makahiki a me ka hapalua i ka nui nui, me ka nānā'ole i ka pae o ka nohona o ka makuahine a me kona noho ola.
2. 'O nā kōkua kōkua'ē a'e i nā mākua kūhine.
3. 'A'ole hiki ke ho'oku'u iā ia ma ka hana o ka ho'oponopono'ana, inā'a'ole 14 makahiki ke keiki i ka wā e ho'oku'u'ia ai, ke'ole ka ho'oponopono'ia o ka hui, ai'ole e ho'oku'u'ia ka hana ho'olimalima hou. Mālama'ia nā mākua makuahine inā loa'a ka ho'oku'u'ana no ka ho'opau'ia'ana o ka pāhana hana a ka'aelike. Ma ka manawa like, ua uku'ia ka uku makahiki, akā,'a'ole i'oi aku ma mua o 3 mahina mai ka lā i ho'oku'u'ia ai.
4. Loa'a i kekahi makua ho'okahi ho'okahi haneri hapa-uku no ka ma'i ma'i, i hā'awi'ia no ka mālama'ana i kekahi keiki ma'i i lalo o ke 14 makahiki, no ka manawa lō'ihi ma mua o nā wāhine'ē a'e.
5. I kēlā me kēia makahiki, hiki iā ia ke ho'oku'u hou, hiki ke pili i ka papa, a i'ole he hola ho'omaha'elua i ka manawa kūpono no ka wahine me ka uku'ole i ka uku.
6. Ua pāpā'ia ka mea hana i ka hō'ole hō'ole'ana i ka wahine i hana, a pēlā nō ho'i e ho'ololi i kāna uku no kahi kumu li'ili'i no nā kumu e pili ana i kāna mau keiki. Inā hō'ole, pono e ho'omaopopo ka hakuhana i ka makuahine i hala ma ke kākau'ana no ke kumu. 'O ka mea hana i ke kūlana o ka makuahine ho'okahi, ma kēia hihia e pili i nā luna kānāwai.
7. No kēlā po'e makuahine, ua hā'awi'ia ka kuleana e noho ai i ka hale ma mua.
8. 'O ka wahine, ke hānai'ana i kāna keiki wale nō,'o ia ke kuleana mua e ho'onohonoho pono ai no ka ho'olako piha'ana o ka moku'āina ma nā ke'ena o nā keiki.
9. Her keiki ua i kula makahiki, ma ka olelo hooholo o ka hooponopono i loaa kaa ole kulaʻai a me ka noa ana o ka heluna o nā puke.
10. Hā'awi'ia kēlā mau keiki, no ka mea nui, ka hele'ana i kēlā me kēia makahiki i nā kau ola kino a me nā kaulike.
11. Hā'awi'ia nā pono i nā mākua wale nō a no ka loa'a'ole'ana o kekahi mau lā'au lapa'au (e like me ka papa inoa), a no kekahi o nā kumukū'ai nui i 50%.
12. Hiki i nā keiki li'ili'i o nā makuahine ke kūlana o nā mākua ho'okahi ke ho'ohana i ka lumi massage, inā lākou i loko o ka polyclinic.
13. 'O ka lonii makuahine e hānai ana i kā lākou mau keiki hiki ke komo i ka kū'ai'ana i nā mea o nā keiki i mālama'ia ma nā ke'ena o ka moku.

Wahi a ka Code Labor o ka Russian Federation, he mau hana "hana" ho'i no nā mākua makuahine. Eia kekahi la'ana,'o ka nui o nā alana no ka mālama'ana i kekahi keiki ma'i, e like me ka manawa i ho'opau'ia ka pa'a hana, i ka manawa i ho'opau'ia ai ka hui,'ehā mau lā i uku'ia i ka malama.

Ho'omaopopo ka 'auhau i ka hua'ōlelo "makuahine ho'okahi" me he wahine ho'okahi. A inā ua mare kekahi makuahine, ua nele'o ia i nā uku'auhau: pālua i ka'auhau kālā mai ka uku i loa'a. 'O ka makuahine e hānai ana i nā keiki wale nō ka kuleana e'oli'oli i kēia pono a hiki i ka wā e o'o ai ke keiki i nā makahiki.

'A'ole wale ke kānāwai noho wale o ka Russian Federation i hā'awi i nā pono i nā makuahine makua'ole. Ho'okahi o nā wāhine like me ka'ohana piha. 'O ka mea wale nō,'o ia ka makuahine e kuleana i ka hale ma kahi mua, inā pono'o ia e ho'omaika'i i kona mau hale noho.