Pono hae a me kā lākou mea nui

Nā mea pono - he lākou o ka rula e hoakaka i ka hana ia pü me ka interacting me'ē aʻe. A me ka pono mau hae - ia mea, ma ka mea, o ka rula ia lakou iho, i ke ana o i i hui 'ana me' ē aʻe ka puaʻa no ka kela mea keia mea. Ole e hooko me ka etiquette 'aʻole i entail hoʻomalu' ole karaima kuleana (ma ka hapanui o na hihia), akā, e ae hoahewa ia me ka hoopai ana no ka lawehala.

I hana, ma ke kula a me kulanui, ma kona home a me kona ohana, ma ka hale kūʻai, ma lehulehu amo - a pau a me kekahi i kekahi kanaka ma ka liʻiliʻiʻelua launa pū '. Kēia AaOIeIOUIeXAOAaIN nā lehalehu t, ka 'aoʻao, hana, a kamailio ana, ua loiloi' a pau o kēia mau eiiiiiaiou ma'ē aʻe. O ka hana ana, i kekahi meaʻawaʻawa loa, e loaa i ke keʻehi aku i loko o ke kaʻa'ōhua ma lalo iho, e lohe kolohe, mai ke kuai, e ike i ka maka Aremenia colleague a classmate haha ole i ko lakou aloha uuku. Hoʻonaʻauao kanaka makemake loa ka noonoo e hana i mau kanawai e ae i mea discomfort, a hiki houʻeha i ka 'ē aʻe. He e noho ma kūikawā rula - pono kūmau.

Mai i pahu aku ai, maiʻaʻole e hawawa koʻu i ka kekahi aoao,ʻaʻole e kamailio me kona waha - a pau kēia mau etiquette rula e e kamaʻilio me 'ē aʻe oluolu a me ka puaʻa. Like me ka pono kūmau ka mea nui, no ka mea, ole ia kiʻekiʻe pilikia o ka kuni me hawawa koʻu, a me ka boor, a me na kanaka makemake ole i ka i mea. La kekahi kanaka o ka poe a pau e huli aku ai, ua loaʻa i ka loa paakiki.

He nui, e like me ka pono mau hae o ka hana, no ka mea, ua wehewehe aku ma ka kanaka hana. Eia naʻe, i ka rula o ka etiquette ua lōʻihi oki ia e aʻo ma kekahi OAXA manawa. Kēia wehewehe i ke kolohe a me ka emi ana o tact o ka i kēia lā i ka wā'ōpiopio, i kona lea i. Ana o ka etiquette hiki ke loaʻa wale nō e hoonoho iho i ke kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi, akā, ke nānā anal i kā lākou cue, mai ko lākou mau mākua a me nā kumu. Hana ma ke 'ano kūlana Ke Ana Hoʻohālike i "me" na¯ a me nā hoa, kii, akā,ʻaʻole i ka makua. Pela, i keia la i ka ke kaiāulu kanaka, pono kūmau ke kiʻekiʻe o mae wale, kūpono ma cultureless, boorish, a me ka naaupo o ka ulu hanauna.

Eia naʻe, i kekahi kanaka nana i ole loaa pono aʻo i loko o kamaliʻi, hiki ke hahau mai ia, ma ka mea a he mea ka ka hoʻoponopono-hou. County, hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni hou, kūikawā kula - nā mea a pau i kahi ua hōʻike hewa i ka mea makemake e lilo i kekahi mau kanaka o ka moʻomeheu, he kanaka me ke poʻo palapala.

No emi nui nō ka pono kūmau o ka 'ōlelo, no ka mea, ka mea e pono ai no ka hui' ana me 'ē aʻeʻike piʻi na kanakaʻano o. O ka kekahi e hea ana ia ia iho i unsociable a uncommunicative Kahalaopuna i ka pono no ka leka pepa, wale Nāna e koho i kekahi hoa hou ke akahele.

Palapala me ka polite kanaka mau kai makemake i ka ona makemake e kamailio hou aku a nui. Kamailio me ka mea hawawa koʻu koe i kaʻawaʻawa loa aftertaste a me ka unwillingness e hoʻomau i ke kamailio ana.

nā mea pono o ka 'ōlelo kikowaena ole ai na rula. Penei, i keʻano o ka unacceptable e hoala mai i ka leo a me ka hawawa koʻu i ka kekahi aoao, Ua pili ka pāpā i ka paku'ōlelo hōʻinoʻana. Oe e hoolohe pono ai i ka'ōlelo, akā, e alalai mai i kona 'ole' oe kekahi mau manawa o ka mea hookahi.

E hoomanao i keia mau rula i ole ai paʻakikī, a me ka malama ana ia lakou hiki wale lilo i ka uhane o kekahi poe.