No ke aha lā i loko o ka XXI kenekulia loira pomaikai ana na nā mākua i loaa ole?

He aha mehe mea e e banal kahea, eʻai i nā makahiki carefree o ka wā kamaliʻi a me ka adolescence? He mea maopopo loa i ka poe i ole kaumaha i na manao, a ola oi aku ka pomaikai kanaka oo ui kanaka. A, aka hoi, i kēia'ōlelo meaʻuʻuku manawa ua i kanalua ma hope o ia i waho i loko o kaʻumi makahiki mua o ke Ka Wā Kaukani maoli lawa ua hoano e kanakolu, akā, i waena o nā pōkiʻi ia mea he aloha o ka noho emi, he pono ole. Ano, ma hope, ka pomaikai pendulum lewa ana i loko o ke ala o ka mea opiopio.

30 - i ka maikai. Akā, ...

Pela, i ka 2010 nā pōkiʻi manao insecure. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ma ka mea e manao ia o ka wa opiopio, - i ka mea maikai manawa o ke ola. Life ka hoao ana mea i lawa, a 'o ia hoʻi ia mea, ua nui pilikia, a he pilikia e pili ana i kekahi mea ua ikeia. "E like" ha o ka makahiki, kanaka pele i kekahi mea i loko o ke ola, imi ae la, a ua i loko o mea kupanaha mau makahiki i ka wa a he nui nō e hiki, akā, uaʻike ka hailona, i leie aku ia ia e holo alaʻokoʻa na mea he nui o na pitfalls, purposefully hooikaika e loaʻa ai ka pomaikai. Ka uku o Radio kekahi kūlana nui kekahi, no ka mea, i ka hailona o ke dala, e uku i ka hoʻomalu, a no laila, e koke lilo ole, e lawe makahiki o ke kuka nei lakou hua hoʻohui manawa e kiʻi mea hiki ka hoao ana. I mau, 30 makahiki kahiko - he elemakule nui no na kane a me na wahine. No laila, ka mea i manaʻo a ma kahi o 2010. Akā, nā haʻawina hōʻoleʻia kāna i kēia assertion. Lākou i nā hualoaʻa i paʻiʻia ma ka 'Amelika' epekema puke pai Social manaʻoʻike a me ke kanaka me Science Allison P. Davis.

A nui-ka unahiʻole, ana manaʻo

Ma ke kookoo o ka Oihana o Socialʻike manaʻo Kulanui o San Diego (CA) i nei hana nui study, kona manao ua e hooholo i ka nui o ka pomaikai mawaena o ka poe opiopio hanauna a me na kanaka "no kanakolu". Nō kāu, ua hana oia i loko o ke ana o ka kŘpa a uuku helu o nā mea i paneʻia, ka hapanui o na haumana ana ia lakou iho, no ka poe noonoo ole no ia mea, ka mea hiki pono o ka hana. I keia manawa, psychologists ua hoʻomaka 'ana i ka mea nui, a hiki i ke kahe o ka unahiʻole, i. A huina pau pūʻulu o noiʻi alakai'ōewe Twengeʻako ia 1,27 Mill, A adolescents ma 50 tausani nā mākua ma ke akea makahiki huahelu mai ka 18 a hiki i 96 makahiki. Nā hualoaʻa ma hope o loaa aaioee, lakou naau epekema.

A pau i ka hewa o ka hāʻule pohō wale?

E like me ka mea huli mai, i ka optimism ana o kanaka ma ka makahiki o ka "kanakolu-kekahi" mea ma ka haʻahaʻa kiʻekiʻe. Ke noiʻi i ka hopena, e maopopo i nā kumu o kēia kŰia kaumaha i ka nuʻu mua i loko o nā makahikiʻelima hope. Jean Twenge i ka makahiki mua manao e pili ana i ke kumu oʻo kanaka i kekahi manawa, ua loaʻa pono i nā hualoaʻa ma ke ola, e alualu ana i kona gloomy manaʻo. Ua hiki i kākau i ka puke i kapaia "hanauna I" a me ka hopena o ka nui-me ka unahiʻole ana hookupaa iho la ia i kekahi o kona nā mea mahuʻi. kanaka noiʻi hoʻohana i ka manawa "excessive optimism o ka wa opiopio" i loko o kāna hana. He aha ka mea? Kēia like He ka kekahi hāʻule pohō wale, i mea, pōkole o ka 'upu' no ka mea maoli hopena o ka iho hope. People pono lilo i iki i ka poe i makemake e lilo i kamalii mai a me ka adolescence. No laila, e kali ana no ka leʻaleʻa-piha New Year ka Holiday o ka malamalama o ka aoao, anapu koke hōʻike manakā.

Ma Europa, a me ka US

Ma keia manao, hoihoi 'e nana hopena o ke ao mālama' ia ma ka makahiki 2006 maʻEulopa. Ma kekahi, e manaoia ka Danes nā kupa o ka loa pomaikai aupuni i loko o ka anamanaʻo i hoike i ka 'ano haʻahaʻa' upu 'no ka mea e hele mai ana ka makahiki, oiaiʻikepili hōʻike i Italy, a Greece,? Iaeoe ka haahaa wahi i loko o ka degere o ka manao a me ko lakou mau ola, ua hōʻike ka mea kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe o ka' upu '.

Mākou loaʻa kekahi empirical hoike i kanaka i keia la i lanakila ekolu makahiki ma waho, i hana ai i loko o kona wā'ōpiopio, ua pōpilikia i loaʻa ai ka hailona hou wā like me adolescents o ka hala hanauna. Twenge pili pū kēia i nā hualoaʻa o ka aina ana o ke kula kiʻekiʻe haumāna i ia, a me kona mau nā hoapili i kekahi ke komo i ka hoʻokō 'hōkeoʻikepili.

I e like me na seventies

Ua hoʻonuiʻia Hana 'upu' ma ka hoʻomaka o ke kenekulia me ka nui loa, ma kekahi hihia papaluaia ma ka hope hookahi kanaha makahiki. No ka laʻana, manao iho la oia i ka makahiki 1970 i emi ma mua o ka hapalua o na haumana ana ia e hoopiha managerial kulana, ka wā e hiki i ka makahiki o kanakolu. I kēia lā, e like me ua 64%. Ma keia manao, nui ka ololi o keʻano'ōhumu mai o ka like ole. A i kekahi kanaka mea opiopio, mea, aole ia i ike i ke koena o kona 'oihana. He ua wale nō e hele, e hana ia, akā, ma ke kānāwai o averages, ka hapanui kanaka hiki ole i na'lii.

Personal ola

Ma waho aʻeo ka loaa a me ka 'oihana, Americans kekahi manaʻo hou, mai ko laua mare ana - wahi a Eli Finkel, nä känaka' epekema, psychologist ma Northwestern University. Inā ka wā ma mua i ke kane kōkua halawai me ka walaʻauʻana pono (mahi kihapai a pololei ana i ke kālā), akā, e na mea he nui e kali ana no ke kane a me ka wahine i ka kākoʻo, e hoʻokō kiʻekiʻe pakiko-ʻia, pakiko-i kona a me ka ulu pilikino. More a oi mare ana no ka mea, o ka mea ka hoʻokô 'ana i kēia mau kiʻekiʻe hae. Ka'opi o ka manaʻolana hiki aku ai i ke kuhi hewa. A laila, aia ka he midlife ka hoʻoponopono ulia, i, e like me uaʻike, ke kumu o ka'opi o na ohana ...

kuhi hewa'ōnaehana

He aha e hana ai? Inā mākou i noonoo ai i kekahi mea hypothetical manawa kūpono e hele hoʻi a me ka'ōlelo iāʻoe, nā mea e olelo aku keia i ka'ōpio haku o keia la ka kanakolu-makahiki ke kanaka? Kekahi kanaka i hoikeia i ka nānā i ka mea makemake e aho ole i ka AIM kiʻekiʻe. Akā, i kēia mea,ʻaʻole i koho. No ke aha la e ike koke kaupalena i ko lakou makemake, a, e haawi aku i ka moe? Malia paha oe AIM kiʻekiʻe oe no e pono ai? Na wale caveat - pono eʻoia iʻo. Sky-kiʻekiʻe moeʻuhane ke alakai i ka hāʻule pohō wale, a ua ikeia e Jean Twenge like me ka hopena o ko lākou noiʻi.

Akā, kona ke kākoʻo '-mea kākau Sonia Lubomirski A noʻonoʻo pono a me ka ala, e kahu ai ka hokahoka. Ua manao maopopo, akā, no laila, he nui ka mea i ka poʻe naʻauao manaʻo like loa me ka mea, i ole hoʻokō i ka hana. Ka like hōʻike Lubomirski underrated mana o ka mahalo "no ka mea au i." Ke limahana mai la i ka puka 'upu' ana o ka oi aku luku. E kiʻi i ka maikai kulana, ka hana ua ano e eia aʻe o ka 'ihiʻihi noho. ʻalo me ke kanaka nui, he kaikamahine loaa ia kiʻekiʻe ua he uuku. A no laila, ma luna o. Psychologists a me sociologists i dala i ka makahiki "hedonic Makamae." Akā, ka pomaikai nei i ka wahi ...